We have been talking about moving forward on spicing things up by adding a third to play with us. Husband is ready now to have someone else in the bedroom and is open to both participating In the action or just watching her play around. Wife gets excited when we talk about her fooling around with another person - especially giving them a great blowjob, but she is not quite ready yet to make the next move and have someone join us. Husband also open discreet play without wife with select guys / women / couples. I enjoy pleasing and open to most anything - especially giving long massages and oral with men or women. Can host during the week without my wife in my apartment in Chicago.