I'm always happy to talk on IM when I'm on AFF...look to see if I'm online anytime you might want to try connecting. BTW, these days I'm splitting my time between Half Moon Bay and Palo Alto. In any case, I've made an effort here, and in the additional questions section, to share plenty of my thoughts with you. I hope that, as you read through my words, the bits and pieces each cover enough, but are still short enough to keep things interesting...just like a short sexy skirt. I've been described as a sensualist and I believe that it is a very accurate aspect of who I am. I love the feel of a woman --in her entirety much more than any particular point of her topography. It starts with heart and mind to make the most of touch and every other sense. Intelligent, accomplished, respectful, energetic gentleman that wants to understand where the edges of the envelope are for you; will make sure to visit all corners of your interest and remain respectful of boundaries. Can take charge, or be the best supporting role player imaginable. I am very reflective of the per that I am with. If you need someone to keep up with you in an engaging, thought provoking conversation as part of getting you stirred up? I'd love to do it...even when it's not about getting you stirred up. Do you want someone to focus on you, minutes or hours, tip to toe, responsive to your twists and turns? I'm there. Do you want someone to lead the rocking and rolling? You got it. Is this that time that intense desire simply takes over and you just need to be the one driving some lustful loving right away? Yep, I'm right with you. Above all, know that to my mind, [U]"She Comes First!"[/U] B)

My Ideal Person It starts with a touch of the skin, a slight kiss, a certain glance; and, if that feels right, then the rest will most likely be memorable.

I like to connect with a woman that is comfortable with herself; she can be opinionated and demanding, but must be open-minded and respectful at the same time.

I find eyes to be captivating; but I am absolutely enthralled when it's clear that there is also something fascinating going on behind those eyes!

Ideally she will be fit, active and have a healthy desire of sensuality to build on.

I do feel that intimacy (mind, body & spirit) is so much better with even a little "independent of the bedroom" connection. That said, I am open to interactions you'd like to pursue --from periodic, or not, to something ongoing could be great; and, even long term is a possibility were it to mutually feel right.

Let's talk; and if that works for both, then let's continue with a moment where we can decide next, or no, steps for us. No need to simply rush blindly; mutual desire is the preferred way to deeply sensual (mind & body) fulfillment.

Hopefully, reading here and there will help you to comfortably decide whether or not to try to connect.

Quick Note: I'm always thrilled to receive signs of interest, so THANKS if you've tried to let me know.

I do use the "Hotlist" as one quick simple way to say that you've stood out; so, if you do see that I've "hotlisted" you, consider it to be a genuine indication of my having read/seen something that really did catch my attention and appreciation. Cheers! Look for me on IM here if you're up for saying hello.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Wait a minute. What if holding back is the fantasy?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Outdoor/Nature, top of the Sidney Bridge (Australia)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage, - Her desires will always get priority:

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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