I am married to keep it that way. I’m seeking a friends with benefits relationship with one lucky lady - preferably someone in a similar relationship status with similar wants, needs, and desires. Discretion is an absolute must. I’m a real man. I’m down to earth, a good listener, kind, gentle, and confident. I’m fit and in good shape. Good looking too! I’m a “boy next door” type. I'm gonna have to be a day player meaning I rarely have nights free. If there's one thing I probably have over other guys it's that I'm nicer and more honest as hopefully you've been able to tell by reading thus far. I have other pics available. No dick picks. Sorry to disappoint you. I’m not some dumb fuck degenerate that thinks you want to see my junk. I mean good grief. Does tact exist anymore? Yes, it does, with me. I am the last man standing between here and a tactless world. I love kisses and making out. My biggest turn on is pleasuring a woman... especially with my lips and my tongue. I can't get enough of it. I love foreplay. The longer the better. I like touching, and feeling, and kissing a woman's body and watching her change as she goes through waves of pleasure in my arms. Seriously, how can any guy not want that? That is the best.

My Ideal Person It’s a big stretch, and God I hope you exist and are out there somewhere...

Someone in a similar situation looking for a no strings, on going, friend with benefits relationship.

I like the shape of a woman whether its chubby, toned, or skinny. The most important part about the way you look is your personality. Being nice, kind, and lady like turns me on. Being present and in the moment and being genuine is a turn on. All I can offer is my kindness, respect, and being genuine in return.

The most important thing for me is discretion and respect. I have no intention of changing my situation or yours. I want to have clear expectations going into whatever relationship we might have. For me the fantasy is being with you in the moment. I don't want to pretend to be someone I'm not and I really don't want you to pretend to be someone different.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Amy Adams. Red hair. She seems so innocent but you know she
has a wild side that would surprise you.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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