Transwoman looking for same. Maybe men? Maybe women? For those IMs coming in, I'm not ignoring you. Still kicking the tires on this site and haven't sprung for paid, so it's not letting me respond to you. (Where tf is a user guide and price list? Says buy monthly subs but then talks coins and buying coins every time you try to do something. ???) Anyway, not averse to the idea of hookups but would like to find something more solid maybe. Ladies or gentlemen, be confident and secure in yourself. It doesn't really work for me if you're afraid someone you know might see you with me. I consider myself a little bit intellectual, i can cook, and have multiple skillsets. I am an eclectic blend of the masculine and feminine. I can be clingy, aloof, loving, or cold and cruel, but i am trying to cultivate the better aspects of my nature. I can be quite freaky but my libido has had a noticeable decline since beginning the path to a truer self. Things require time, attention, and effort to get to that place where the fires of desire are burning brightly.

My Ideal Person Intellectual. Can cook. Multi talented. Athletic. Not looking for a triathlete but someone who will coax me out for that run, hike, walk, bike ride or whatever.
A partner. A buddy. A friend. A lover. A companion. A person of that shares some interests and has a good temperament. Or, failing that, if I'm in the mood for it, a good, clean, fuck buddy who is attentive to my needs too.