First off, I'm not looking for a passionless hookup. I am in a sexless marriage that, for reasons of my own, I chose not to leave. I crave lust, the thrill of being in bed with a lover who wants and needs me as badly as I do her. To focus on her pleasure as she focuses on mine, until we both collapse exhausted and fully satiated. I have many fantasies, many desires, and many curiosities. I hope to share all of those, and to explore hers as well. I believe that nobody can be everything to another person, but the right person can be an important part of another's life. I seek that person for my life, and want to be that for her, for a time at least. I make no claims of ownership and no promises of loyalty. In a nutshell, no strings attached. I both promise and ask only that we be honest and open with each other and take what we can and what we need from the relationship before moving on. That may be after a single meeting, or a single lifetime.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is probably married, looking for that spark that she’s kissing at home, and is willing to come see me in the hotel whenever I’m in town. I travel for work, which means I have a nice private place for us to meet. She has an open mind, a creative sexual appetite, and loves to share whatever crosses her mind.

While I definitely have opinions on what I find attractive in a woman, I prefer not to share them in too much detail. If you've ever heard the song "She's More" by Andy Griggs, perhaps you'll understand why. I could describe my "perfect" fantasy girl and thereby miss out on the best lover I might have ever had. What I find most attractive about a woman is her mind and her personality (okay, yes, her breasts too!), and those I simply have to experience in order to measure. With that in mind, I look forward to talking to you and going from there.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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