Classy, attractive, young, upbeat, respectful, uninhibited, educated/intelligent, professional Connecticut couple seeking similar couples in order to have discreet and fun encounters at bars/restaurants in the Norwalk/Westport/Fairfield area. We are looking for like minded couples to meet at a bar and hopefully progress to something more, including a long term friendship. We enjoy living in CT, but we find most of the people our age are too uptight, boring, and conservative. We probably appear a bit conservative most of the time ourselves, but when we go out on Saturday nights, conservative would not describe us at all -- it's all about having fun and being sexy. We are interested in finding people like ourselves - attractive and educated white, mature professionals in their 30s or early 40s who enjoy having fun, going out, flirting, dressing sexy, partying and playing. Ideally, you are discrete people who are into "the lifestyle" and share our tremendous sexual drive and appetite. We prefer allowing things to develop naturally and without pressure over an evening (or evenings) of cocktails and many glasses of champagne. Wife is completely 100% bi-sexual and experienced...Husband is 100% straight. Although we have done full partner swap in the past, our ideal situation is simply for the women to play. However, wife is free and encouraged to do whatever she wants, including being with other guys. She is a bi-sexual hotwife -- very attractive and all natural (5'6 tall, 114 lbs. and a size 2 with perfect C-cup breasts). Although she is reserved most of the time (we're both executives at large companies), when she has a few drinks in her and/or is flirting with another bi-woman, she gets incredibly hot and horny. Ultimately there is little she'll refuse to do given the right per and circumstances. Outside of the office, she always dresses sexy and you'll never find her not wearing a miniskirt/minidress with high heel shoes/boots (and always sans panties). Other lifestyle-oriented or bi-sexual women can spot her a mile away because of her eyes and vibe. She has amazing legs, a great body & flawless complexion, and she is always neatly trimmed downstairs. Although neither of us care about working out, we are both athletic, in great shape, and very clean...Also very worldly, respectful, and sexually adventurous. We are both blond (from Northern European/Scandinavian descent), and take our physical appearance and sexuality seriously. We enjoy the finer things in life (travel, wine, 3-4 star restaurants, etc), however, we also enjoy grinding on the dance floor of a bar, getting lap dances at a strip club, or laying-out on a nude beach. Jealousy of any kind is nonexistent in our relationship. We have been married for ten years, and are more in love now and attracted to each other than ever! We simply enjoy physical pleasure and the high that we get from involving other people in our sex life and discretely persuing in the swinger/hotwife lifestyle.

My Ideal Person Wife is heavily drawn to other attractive bi-sexual and hyper-sexual women like herself. Essentially, we are looking for other positive, secure, intelligent and attractive white couples, who want to make fun friends and have something potentially more. All women must be classy, fit, attractive, sane, articulate, and smart, and have no extensive piercings or tattoos. All must be between 29 and 47, clean, college educated and white (SORRY no Asians, Hispanics or African Americans). Regarding husbands or boyfriends, it doesn't really matter as long as you're white, under 50, clean-cut (NO long hair or facial hair), discreet, educated, and respectful. Please no cheesy or non-college educated couples. Single men, nerds, geeks, biker-types, blue collar guys, meat-heads, frat boys, Eurotrash, steroid enhanced weight lifting-types, guidos, greasy ethnic-types - DO NOT RESPOND.

We assure you that we are both fun, attractive, and very cool. We are completely real, and everything in this profile is 100% true. Discretion is paramount for us, as we are a normal upstanding professional couple (swinging has no place in our public life) and wife is somewhat apprehensive about contacts we make over the net (versus meeting at a bar). So, please NO FAKES, NO GAMES and no endless email/photo/phone exchanges - let's meet up at a bar and see if we click! Hope to hear from couples like us soon!!! Again, single men and fakes - please don't respond...You will be blocked and reported to the service for abusing it immediately.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Wife wants be airtight and have sex with five well-endowed
men at the same time -- with a cock in each hand, and one working her pussy, ass, and mouth.
She also fantasizes about being with a well hung black man.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Double Penetration

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Ability to respect boundaries.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Anyone attractive, slim, smart and clean fits our criteria! Women must enjoy dressing sexy. Pants or long
skirts on a women are not sexy! Men must be well endowed -
the bigger the better!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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