"Why do they call you The Spider?" I hear that alot. Another question is..."Well, can't we just meet and fuck?" Look, here's the deal. I'm not into One Night Stands and I don't jump around. It's not a pick up line, it's just smart. Now, let's talk sex because isn't that why most of us are here or think we're here? Sex is just a series of physical acts. Some are bigger, smaller, faster, longer, thicker or more experienced but it's all just a combination or series of acts that almost everyone does. What I offer, COMPLETELY new version of an old game. Let me be upfront. I did not invent S&M. I didn't invent the words SLAVE, SUB, MASTER or any other form of The Control Game but I can tell you I have RE-INVENTED it. I have been contacted constantly with questions like "Am I gonna be a Sub or a Slave?" This bothers me. We won't define what it is I have instore but I can tell you a few of the basics about it and hopefully it will at least answer some of the general questions. 1. I am NOT into pain. You won't be marked in any way. 2. I do not in anyway want control over your Public Life. 3. You will in no way have control of any kind once we are together. 4. There is NO Safe word. It's not needed. I don't cause a great deal of pain anyway. 5. If you have done this before or think you have, lose all expectations before you come because it's different. TRUST ME. 6. Don't come to me with conditions. "I don't do blindfolds."e.g. If you don't trust something I'm going to do, we should not be playing. Meeting strangers for sex is risky enough. At least I give you an idea of what will happen. Most of these guys won't. 7. If you have never been part of a MINDFUCK, you'll learn the true meaning of orgasm. 8. Before we meet, I'll have a series of questions for you about your Sex Life, Past In General, Spouse, etc. Be honest about them, I'm catering to you more than you know. 9. In the end, here is the deal. We will meet in one way or another and when we do, we are going to have fun. It's Role Play. You will completely surrender yourself to me for a few hours and I am going to respect that and use it to my best to pleasure you over and over,body and mind and when I have finished, you'll be fine. You'll be scared, nervous, mad, and exhausted at times but won't remember any of it the second it's over. You'll only leave with the fondest memory of your life until next we meet. I hope to embrace you soon. As for my background, I am a former "Government Worker" that specialized in getting into your head. I have a background in Phych., Anatomy and do not appreciate when someone feels that the 10 years I have on them or they have on me could over come that. I can assure you, there's a good chance I understand your body and mind as well as you do. Loosen up and remember, it's all about fun.

My Ideal Person Someone ready to be CONTROLLED, SEDUCED, EMBRACED, DISGRACED, LOVED, HELD, TIED, , FONDLED, GAGGED, BLINDED, DRAINED, TEASED, EDUCATED, SCARED, MOLESTED, HUGGED, KISSED, GROPED, SUCKED, MINDFUCKED, MENTALLY SCARED, ENLIGHTENED, ENGAGED, TICKLED, CUMMED ON, DELIGHTED, SMILED UPON, SPANKED, PINCHED, HYPNOTIZED and more than anything.............Respected.

Now, as for age. I do not judge but I have found that typically a few years make for someone who knows what they want sexually. I do not dislike very young girls in anyway but sometime a little experience is nice before going through some of the things you're asking mee to do to you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Guns N Roses are my alltime fav. but I'll listen to anything.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To have a room full of slaves at my beck and call.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I think Shakira is incredible.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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