We're secure in our relationship, but looking to add some additional fun if we find the right per/people. WE ARE A COUPLE. A "Package Deal". There's <000 chance anyone is ever going to get intimate with either of us without the other one's knowledge, agreement & peral involvement, so DON'T try. It will ONLY succeed in angering us, or worse. We now return you to your regularly scheduled reading. Couples can be of "regular/normal behavior" aka "vanilla" or have a Dominant male, submissive female, the opposite thereof, or anything in between. Single females can be "regular/normal behavior" aka "vanilla" , slightly dominant or submissive. Please bear in mind, although we CERTAINLY & FREQUENTLY enjoy mild-moderate level BDSM in our sex life, it is by NO means a "we have to" kind of thing, or required as part of your lifestyle to join us. After all, simply adding someone(s) into our adventures is still a relatively new thing for us. All that being said, Is there anything HOTTER in the world than your wife kneeling in front of another man, looking you in the eye & asking for permission to suck his cock? Especially when you know full well that WON'T be where things end. We do want to clarify something that a few have questioned. Our definition of "bi-curious" simply means that it hasn't been absolutely ruled out as ever happening, but it also hasn't been pursued, or experienced as of yet. We know, everyone's definition varies a little bit, so we wanted to ensure there's no confusion. Any/all MUST be willing for us all to get to know each other to establish comfort levels, before anything else. NOT " Hi, let's fuck". One last thing. If you're married, but your spouse doesn't know you're out trying to play with other people, please don't contact us. Not being judgmental, but we wouldn't want it done to us, so we're not going to do it to someone else. If you have any questions not answered by our intro, ideal per(s) description & question/answer sections, just ask.

My Ideal Person Someone(s) with a personality, intellect, sense of humor & a life. If we don't "hit it off" outside of the bedroom, you'll NEVER see us inside the bedroom. Personality, intellect & a sense of humor are by far MUCH more important & sexxxy than any other attributes.
Please don't misunderstand, there has to be at least SOME physical "click" or we'll never spend enough time around each other to know if we're attracted to each other. However, specific physical expectations are not only not going to be the deciding factor(s), they don't even exist. There IS one factor within the physical realm that is an absolute. We cannot spend time with a smoker. The "He" of us, has such an allergic reaction to cigarette smoke that I must carry an antihistamine nasal spray with me at all times, even if I simply sit near someone in a restaurant who smoked outside. There's nothing that I can do about it. Just like someone who is allergic to cats can't pick one up & snuggle it, I can't be in close proximity, much less intimately close, to a smoker.
As others have said (paraphrased of course), "We're not Ken & Barbie & we're not looking for Ken & Barbie. If you are, go to Walmart or Toys-R-Us, because that's the closest you're ever going to come to finding them.
We're real people looking for real people".
Please understand that the "He" of us handles almost all initial communication, & if you are a single guy, the he of us will ALWAYS meet you by himself for lunch, or something, first. Unfortunately, we have encountered a significant number of liars, jerks, weirdos, flakes, assholes, & more over the years. Because he has a great deal to protect, it's just necessary. Last, but not least, it often seems as though the messaging on the site, especially the IM hates us, so if you drop "The" from our ID, you can message him via some other platforms.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Yes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Personality above all

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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