I do not have Gold membership (yet?) so no IM and I can't initiate msg or look at your profiles at this time... After much thought, I realize I am looking to fill a kink. It is to meet at an establishment that has a bar and food. You will sit at the bar and I will approach, and ask to sit beside you. We will engage in conversation as I flirt and discretely touch you. This is not a 'Immediately to Sex' card. I enjoy the pursuit, the first meet, getting to know someone and deciding if there is any attraction between both of us.

My Ideal Person Someone who is clean and has a healthy sense of humor. A man who is not cheating on a significant other (my husband is aware that I opened this profile) and is respectful of the word 'No'.
He can talk to/text and meet my husband if he wants verification of my status.
If it is decided to pursue the attraction, my husband will be present for any play.