I do not have Gold membership (yet?) so no IM and I can't initiate msg or look at most profiles at this time... I am not a 'Immediately to Sex' person. Dick pics will turn me off. I enjoy the pursuit, the first meet, getting to know someone and deciding if there is any attraction between both of us. I also would like to know more about you thus we will msg until I am comfortable with meeting you. Please DO NOT ASK me to meet you for a "FUCK". I want a real person who will be respectful & a FWB, not a "One and Done". Plus, 'HEADS UP' you need to have your A game orally. I can take up to 30 minutes to 'pop' but when I do, the action is generally reciprocated.

My Ideal Person Someone who is clean and has a healthy sense of humor. A man who is not cheating on a significant other and is respectful of the word 'No'. Yes, my husband is aware & will meet you. All parties have to be in agreement to play.
If it is decided to pursue the attraction, my husband will be present/nearby for any play. I will not put myself in a position of vulnerability.