I am an Black female, 5'4" - 140 lbs. Enjoy movies, plays, concerts, dining out, traveling, and entertaining people. I am looking for a friend and then a possible committed relationship to share my interests and values. Someone with self sufficient ren, a per who wants more out of life then sitting on a nice soft sofa. I love to travel I have been to many different places in my life time but traveling alone is not my idea of fun. My motto is...have fun now because when you are dead you are gone!!!!

My Ideal Person An artistic soul that knows what he wants: Love to experience new and thrilling adventures, is never afraid of change most of all enjoy coming back to a loving person at the end of the day!

Long intellectual discussions with him, laugh out loud every day, and just enjoy each others' company. A tough guy, but a true romantic, that will know just how a woman wants to be treated.

A person who can admit when he's wrong and do anything he can to make it right and ensure it doesn't happen again. Supportive and encouraging.

A man that does the little things that make my day better like bringing me a chocolate covered strawberry from work, ordering my favorite glass of wine, and/or rubbing whatever hurts that day.

One that can make me smile, even when I'm grouchy or sad, has a good sense of humor. One that is respectful and expects respect in return. A man that doesn't need to dominate me, but isn't submissive either.

Someone I can establish boundaries and an understanding with and he shares and expects the same from me.

He can match my intensity in a heated discussion, and still be my pillar when I fall apart.