I'm not adding single men to my dance card. If you message me (don't IM; it's a sure way to get ignored), know what you're doing: make your message witty, fun, and worth my while. I delete boring messages with glee. Also, be within 10 years of my age either way, men-over 6' (no exceptions), spell out your words (HRU, HMU and the like make you sound super dumb) and don't call me sweetie.

My Ideal Person I'm leaning sapphic these days but couples (fakes, don't bother; seriously, I'll know), who are led by women initiating contact are quite welcome, as well. Personality and self-assurance are key. If you have to lead a conversation with, "What are you into?" we're probably not going to hit it off. Be enthusiasts of life-affirming things, whatever they may be: arts and culture, books and movies, the outdoors, current events... my interests are wide ranging and my curiosities are never sated.
One more thing. I'm going to ask you how you voted in 2020. There are right answers, and the wrong ones are dealbreakers.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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