Hello to all who read this! My name is Jay & if I had to encapsulate myself into 1 word, which no one should ever have to do, though Imma do it to myself (haha that's a pun) would be "eclectic" I suppose. Of course who can be defined in a word, not this guy, but that's as close as I can get! I'm also kinda weird, I think in a good way cuz who likes to be normal or average? Probably more than should want to in my opinion, different is good as long as it's who YOU really are & not what someone else thinks you should be! Ok, that being said, I'm Jay a straight 41-year-old bachelor who has no nor been married & been single for, let's say, a while now! Loneliness sucks but it's not the end of the world, just means you gotta be more resourceful; or go to the gym, or get a job, or don't be an asshole, ha! There are countless reasons why someone would be lonely but there's only one person really that can fix that & we all know the answer to that one, I hope! Well, I'm trying to be resourceful & use my charm to hopefully meet some people I prolly would not have met had it not been for the internet but I'm keeping my expectations at a moderate level & we'll just have to wait & see what the future holds! I would like to not just have a fuck buddy, but a real friend that I can discuss more than just sex with & would talk to on a fairly regular basis, whether it's a woman or a couple that allows me into the fold of their relationship. Basically a deeper connection than just sex is what I hope to attain during my time here! I'm an open book so if someone has a question they'd like an answer to I'd be more than happy to answer it!

My Ideal Person My ideal person/persons would be those who have an open-mind & are never judgmental. They'd be kind but could be dicks in a joking way, as I tend to be at times! They'd be honest & truthful as well as decent communicators. Intellect is a valued quality to me as I think a conversation is mandatory to bond with a potential partner as its how we learn both about & from one another! Being able to cut loose & have fun without worry for a few hours, ya know unplug! Disease-free & clean is a must for me as I take pride in my appearance so should they, not meaning looks, though those don't hurt its not my #1 priority! The desire for sex & their sexual appetite should be healthy & open to try new things & talk about it openly! Mainly just be a good person who treats others how they'd like to be treated! Pretty simple, so you'd think!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I had a fixation on Eliza Dushku in the early 2000's & every time I'd see her on TV I'd find myself tuning everything else out & went my pornographic happy place where my name was always , ha!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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