So I decided to get back on again and update my profile again. So I know the first thing you're going to do is to look at my photo's. So Go ahead, I'll wait..... So I'm guessing if you've read this far it means I've passed the photo test.. LMAO. So a little about me. Just your average 52 year old lady. I have no hangs up about anyone. The main question that is asked or the first question when someone send me a message is. " What are you looking for on this site" so to answer it. I really do not know. One thing is for sure I'm not looking for a relationship. I guess I really have ran my coarse on relationships to much hassle and to be honest really have spent to much time on trying to get the right relationship... Second Question I'm I single ? (Yes) all the way single... but no I'm not into married men or couples... Just feel that is not my cup of tea however for those who do then I Hi5 to you... I'm not looking to be anyone's mistress.. Another question Do I like Young Men? Depends on your mind set but please no one under 26... Little tooo young for me... The the Most asked do I date outside my race.. I think the right man is a sexy man to so I'm a very color blind per. I do not look at the per skin or any other thing.. So hopefully I answered not all but the most popular ones. So if you have read all the way to the end of this then I must say you might be very interested in me and if that is the case then Please by all means Leave me a message... Also please note I'm a BBBW...(Big Beautiful Black Woman) so if your not into big women then I suggest do not waste your time nor mines... But if you are then just leave me a message.. *Winks*

My Ideal Person 1.The Romantic Guy:He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing me flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls me often to let me know he is thinking about me and looks into my eyes and tells me how he feels.

2.The Confident Guy:He is totally secure and sure of himself. and In a relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't feel threatened by my male friends.

3.The Artistic Guy:The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo me.

4.The Free Spirit Guy:The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him — and the wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take me on a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn't worry too much about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices take him.

5.The Intelligent/Witty Guy:He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating and listens to what I have to say in response. He makes me laugh with his clever sense of humor and has an uncanny ability to make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with me for hours and it will never get boring.

6.The Considerate Guy:He holds open my car door and pulls out my chair. He foots the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer me dessert (preferable him). He always asks me out with reasonable notice and picks me up at my door. He is generally sensitive to how I'm feeling and when I'm ready to go home or want to be alone he lets me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I guess my most favorite sexual fantasy is being very controlling in the bedroom.. Where he cannot say a word and just let me do anything to him....Hummmmm kinda got bad mind so some of the things.. I really do not need to say..lol...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I never really fantasize about any celebrity..Why just have never done it...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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