Hmmm, If I am to talk about myself then lets say There is a quote that is my favorite. "If it sounds like trouble, then I am all in!!" I love a good time, whether its just hanging out with friends, having drinks with music playing, enjoying time with a sexy couple. I stay away from drama, love to laugh, very honest and genuine. I have been in swinging/BDSM since I was 19 in the Marine Corps. I have participated as a couple/single. I am the real deal with all of it. I don't flake on others, I understand boundaries, respectful. I have great endurance, never have an issue performing, will last for hours (if there is great chemistry or its really hot then I will just go and will only stop when she taps out). I am secure with myself where touching will not bother me. DP, DVP, Cocks touching while she tries to suck us both or anything else is not a problem. I am straight, with that said I have had men put my cock in his wife/gf pussy/ass. As I said I am secure in myself. I have been in Poly relationships in the past. Thats always fun to be a part of. I have experience as a Dom in BDSM. I have Dominated couples together, women. There's so much more to BDSM then many think other than bondage, spanking and such. I would be happy to show you if interested. There are many sides of me if you wish to learn them. I have no issues with playing on the first night if you wish. I would like to make friends where we can go out and play together, be friends in normal settings. Yes I am single, that's ok for me at the moment. I had my heart broken a time ago so for me real friendships with benefits feels good right now. I am not out to just get laid either. I truly enjoy pleasuring who I am with where they want more. A very special woman this morning made me realize I have not shared the very personal side of myself. Whether meeting someone new or a being in a relationship, the sensual side is always present. The sensual touches you give your partner in public, caressing her intimately while in front of others, creating a craving deep down to intensify the pleasure with every touch, breath on skin. Intensifying the pleasures that leaves a very deep sensual mark on each where it leaves you wanting so much more. So reach out, have a chat with me. I am fun and down to earth. I am sure I could put so much more but that's why you should reach out to talk. Please feel free to Kick me as well. soul4040.

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