I’m a standard member so I can’t see everything I’d like. I’ve tried this before and couldn’t find what I really wanted. I’m a married woman of 20 years. My husband has never satisfied with the frequency of our sex. He is also shy and I have to take the lead. It sucks! I am a black woman with lots of curves and some extra padding (5’6, size 14). I have plentiful real breasts, a voluptuous butt, thick thighs, and a little extra around the middle. Not perfect but you’ll enjoy it. I’m direct and to the point but also like to be pursued. I’ll make sure it pays off. I want a man who can fuck but also stimulate my mind. I love deep penetration and long deep strokes that hit bottom and love having my clit sucked slow and deep. My sexual appetite varies and my partner needs to go with it.

My Ideal Person I’m looking for a friend who can be a sex partner on a regular basis (monthly or more) without being demanding or weird. If we were to see each other in public, it shouldn’t be odd or tense because we’re friends. Interested in a married man. A big dick (7+ and thick) is required and you must enjoy cunnilingus. I want a skilled lover that can move his body and vary positions and strokes (from slow & deep to fast & playful). Flexibility matters. My husband literally cannot do lots of positions because his body is inflexible. I love a man with a broad back. Real talk. I’ve been the MAN in my marriage. So, I want a man that can be ME to me (take the lead and pleasure my body without being shy or coy). So I’m being really self-centered in what I’m seeking. Please don’t message me if this isn’t you. I’ve lived my whole marriage being sexually frustrated—not looking to add to that.

I like tall guys and have a thing for white men with dark hair. I like an alpha man that isn’t afraid to talk dirty but isn’t a fake porn star. I want you to take the lead. A quiet confident man who knows how to fuck and take care of a woman turns me onnnnnnn. Respect is a must. Listening and trust help me open wide. I prefer a white man. But I love all types of men. Dark hair is a big preference. Are you the one? PS. I hate chest hair that isn’t maintained.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open communication and trust

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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