I spend a lot of time working and not a lot of time playing. I would like to play. I'm a slightly submissive but open minded Xer looking for a friend with really nice benefits. I like movies, picnics, youtube cooking videos and the odd spanking every now and again. I like to have fun and laugh. I need a go to person.

My Ideal Person Are you that go-to guy/girl/couple?

You're nice, first of all. Maybe a little dominant. Bulls welcome.

You're a low key freak who's gift of discretion is why no one knows your delightful secret.

Let's be each other's go to-bed buddy.