Well, after posting my kinks-it has to be said. I am absolutely not interested in MARRIED or ATTACHED men who are not in ENM relationships with their women. I don't need a young stud who is into older women. Be older than my grown please. Not a Cougar. Eliminate yourselves now or be prepared for gentle but firm rejection. I like being treated to leisurely and/or intellectually stimulating conversations with single (or maybe ENM) men that I might have something in common with besides great sex. Two hours isn't enough for me and that's what married men have to offer and younger men IMO focus on their D game too much. NO. If we become lovers it's because the chemistry is there from the first kiss, or meeting. If it's off the charts I love to follow your lead and bring my own sense of adventure. I like a dominant man who is good with his hands and has great oral skills and stamina, imagination and knows how to keep me coming back for more. Right now I'm interviewing qualified candidates for the 23 positions (bonus if you know the song reference).

My Ideal Person I would like to be primary and/or figure as a sort of priority in your life. My ENM partner and I don't live together. We're friends because I've been honest about my needs for sexual intimacy. I am looking for a FWB situation (no ONS) and preferably someone who can host as I have a housemate and prefer to keep things separate and private. I'm a noisy and expressive lover who enjoys all the furniture. You have your own place? Yes! I will travel within reason and it will be worth it. I don't need your money. I have my own. Self-respect and self-love- that's what I'm saying. Life is short. Let's Play!
I am a sensualist and experimentalist. So many erogenous zones...When I feel desired I am a giver and love to receive. Open, willing and able. NO cig smokers but 420 is just alright with me. Hasta la vista baby.