Hey there! I'm a laid back, go with the flow, sex positive guy who enjoys getting to know people whether they're friends or lovers. I was divorced 8 years ago - and it's been a little bit of a ride since. In my ex-wife, I had a partner who I could explore with and we enjoyed swinging and going to parties and we were very sexually open with each other and with others. It was really fun and real. It’s hard to find partners that are open or understand or can build the type of trust of that type of relationship and ENM/poly. That's what I want and I hope to find a community of like-minded people who will embrace me and welcome me as a friend. I am a respectful, open, honest fellow who believes that trust and communication and sexuality and exploration are an essential component of the human experience. We're here to help each other out through this journey. I have pondered (and continue to do so) polyamory/ENM/FWB and find a strong affinity toward that respect of human sexuality - but I also know that I like to be connected and to have a partner who I am bonded with - so demisexual also fits. For me - sex and pleasure are continually evolving and finding someone (or some people) I can trust to explore and share with is what I'm here for. I am seriously an open book and am willing to try nearly anything once! (or twice, ha ha.)

My Ideal Person Open, relaxed, fun, excited about life. Honest and straightforward.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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