** Unless you are a standard member, please send regular messages not IMs so we can both read them. ** We've been together for 30 years and have explored various aspects of the lifestyle for the last 20 or so. The Hubby: Experience in the swinging and poly communities, bi-curious and looking for interesting people for both or either of us to socialize or play with. The Wife: I'm a Lifestyle Domme that enjoys decompressing in sessions with my subs/play partners. I describe my dominant side as erotic sadist. I'd love to find a male top(s) that would like to join my sessions and play with my boys. I can be found on FetLife as well Luvs2SpankU2. The Couple: Being parents of 4 does not give us a lot of opportunities to play outside the home together, but it's getting easier as they get older.

My Ideal Person The Wife: My ideal person....I don't have one. I enjoy meeting submissive males and if we hit it off then maybe we play and see how things go. I don't have any requirements other than I expect respect and I will give the same. A good D/s relationship comes with a connection to your partner. I'm not going to be the perfect match for everyone and I don't expect everyone to be a perfect match for me. I enjoy a variety of kinks and enjoy exploring more with partners. Not everyone knows exactly what they are looking for or enjoy and that's ok. Sometimes that journey is the best part of this lifestyle.

The Couple: We've often discussed possible poly options or partners we could share. Finding the right partner is the hardest part. We're keeping our options open and who knows maybe someone looking at our profile right now could be that person or persons.