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NormalSaneGuy4U 49 / M
"Yes Both Normal and SANE!"
Downers Grove, Illinois, United States
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NormalSaneGuy4U 49/M
Downers Grove, Illinois
Can't we all just be "Normal". No need for games
Are you here because you wonder what Normal and Sane is? Well it starts with honesty. I play by the golden rule and hope you do as well. I am not up for games, I will be straight forward and honest with you. All I ask in return is that you do the same for me. Yes, there has to be a physical attraction, but shouldn't there also be a mental connection. Conversation leads to a higher level of attraction, which for me, elevates the excitement of meeting and being with someone. Also, would love to find someone that enjoys sushi or oysters. Is it that odd of a thing? Years ago I met a woman from here in per. It was a nightmare. She wasn't who she said, her photos weren't her, and then she started stalking me. I left the site, and now giving it another chance. Are you the one that will give me a better experience and a better view of AFF? I hope so. It all starts with a conversation to get to know each other. So let's chat!

My Ideal Person I want a person that is comfortable in their own skin. That just is down to earth. Further, one that is true to their word and honest. Just tell me what you are after, and I will share if that is something I am interested in. We can save time that way.

I do my best to act online, the exact way I would act in person. If you say hello, even if I don't know you while we pass each other on the street; I will return the gesture.

I am not one to hop beds. I sincerely am after someone for more than that, to be at least friends with benefits and while I am not ready just yet for a fully committed relationship, one may develop over time. For me, a connection builds the more we interact. But interaction with a person is what I am after. This doesn't mean full dating, it just means civil friendship at least.

Want to build each time on what you have? Then I am your man. Let's talk and get things started! What is the harm in grabbing a coffee and seeing if there is anything to build on? HUGE BONUS POINTS if you want to meet for sushi or even Oysters instead!

I realize there are 10 Million men on here for every "real" female account. But, that doesn't mean you get to treat a person without civility or respect. A kind, educated and civil discussion is a way to begin. If I send you a message such as "Hey how are you doing today? Did you happen to see ..... " your response should not be "Send pic if you want an answer".

Just because I send you a message on here, doesn't mean I am after having sex with you. Sometimes, and I know this might come as a shock, I am just interested in chatting with you online, being nice, or just seeking a chat.

Now for more information. If on your profile, you have videos of you with many different partners, and all of them have you not using protection.. um WE ARE NOT A MATCH!! I am not here to put notches in my bed post, and I am not on here to worry about my health. It is your choice to do that, but please respect mine to not be interested.

SO KICK with me (drop the c) at the same name there.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 49 / male
  • Downers Grove, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: November 3, 1974
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None