I'm here on AFF because I have a very high sex drive, and I've been unsuccessful finding an ideal match in traditional or "vanilla" dating. I have 15 years experience in the lifestyle with my ex-wife. I can color inside or outside the lines; albeit long term, short term, kinky, romantic, or just plain FWB. Just tell me where you stand, and what the rules are. I can play along. I'm honest...to a fault. You should be too. I can play traditional & simple, or fantasy & fetish. I understand that sex can be both simple and complicated. I understand that for some, it's emotional, and for others, it's quite elementary. I'm sensitive to these differences, and I can play both sides very well. I love to kiss, to caress and to spoil. I like to satisfy my partner, and I'm very attentive to her sexuality...her noises and her subtle signs. I believe that the greatest sexual pleasures are only possible when you focus more on pleasuring your partner, and not on how your partner pleasures you. NOTE: I will always use a condom during sex. Also, I'm NOT necessarily interested in getting back into the lifestyle. I just think it's fair to tell you my history.

My Ideal Person She is not afraid, ashamed or embarrassed to share her fantasies, nor hear mine. She also has a very high sex drive, and like me, finds "vanilla" dating boring!

She has a fashion sense - but she also feels comfortable in public wearing a t-shirt or a baseball cap! She loves manicures and pedicures - but she is not afraid to get her nails dirty. She loves to be spoiled - but she enjoys spoiling just as much.