I don't want to change my situation or anyone else's .. but I'm going to be honest I'm basically looking for a married girlfriend.. I'm respectful, keep my mouth shut, fun, open to pretty much everything, I know what I want and am not going to hop into bed with randoms. I'm looking for an ongoing very regular thing with one lady that's exclusive on both sides outside of home... pretty much a friendship with good sex. I like the friend connection because it makes the sex better if we have communication and again I'll be honest I need that friend thing with kind of regular communication to stay intrested , but I AM NOT looking to be a replacement husband. I'm looking for someone who is also married and local who is wanting the same thing. Also I will need time to get to know you before any sexual encounters so if you don't want to wait for that then dont message me. I can provide massages, giving you oral and a lot of great sex anyway you want it and a unique friendship to go with it so I'm wanting the same in return. I have pics to share with the right person. Also want to be 100% safe so I want a lady that is willing to be tested for std’s at my expense. I will be tested also for your benefit.