We have been married for a few years now and this is something that we have always talked about doing but have just never gotten around to. Ideally we want to find someone we are both compatible with sexually and non-sexually as well. We prefer to make friends of a recurring nature as opposed to one time events. Understand that this is something that both partners in the relationship are interested in. She is probably more interested in being with another woman as I get my sexual needs fulfilled every time we're together. At the same time it's not as if I'm NOT going to support and encourage her desires :D The Husband: In most things I am a very proactive and driven individual. I am an educated professional and I value my privacy and understand the desire for discretion by others. I don't like stupidity or ignorance, between the two I think I dislike stupidity more. Mostly I enjoy situations where I can relax in and unwind. I prefer to take it easy and spend time messing around in the back yard, lounging around the pool or trying out a new recipe on the bbq smoker. There are too many things to list when talking about what I like about women. Some of the things I value and find erotic is a woman who knows what she wants and isn't shy/ashamed/self conscious about getting it. Most of us here are not super models and aren't looking for or expecting that. A woman comfortable in her own skin is a real turn on. The Wife: She puts up with me, so that makes her a Saint. I will get her to write about herself later.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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