Very shy about this site and am trying to rebuild confidence in the bedroom again. I can not respond to IM requests so Messages after friend request ?

My Ideal Person Patient, sweet and kissing is a must. Some kind of mutual connection and as weird as it sounds on a site like this.... something more romantic than what the last 15 years has brought me. I am only here out of spite I think. Very very rough husband and just need to rebuild my life and sensual side again. I do not want anything rough not into pain, bondage, peeing, dominance, whipping.... All that comes with that not interested. Clean, kind, respectful and a decent human. I will not get attached..do not want to be a girlfriend but if it works it works. Regular meetings would be ideal as it will help build the trust/healing that I am looking for.