I am a follower in the bedroom, but not so much outside of it. I find giving up control not only a huge stress release for me, but also very natural. I like to laugh and have fun. Things are so serious all around me, it great when I find someone to just relax and laugh with. I don't have a paid account so I can't respond to most messages.

My Ideal Person Honest, not too serious, into kinky fun. Knows what discretion means and follows through. Understands that it may take time to get to know me and is patient. A man that craves control and knows how to use it. I first notice a man's hands. Are they strong? Large? Experienced with handing a woman in the way she needs?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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