We are a happily married couple and just enjoy having a good time from time to time. Did any guys try to have him or her without letting the other one know or try to tell them to do that will be blocked mediately. We are happy together and we will do everything together. just looking for easy going people have fun with in and out of the bedroom. He's been in the lifestyle quite a few years she is very new to lifestyle and we're not looking to jump into anything right away complete our time to get to know someone and when the time is right we'll see what happens. Looking for people close around our age.