OK so, just realized that I need to update this.. Lurking is not going to get my anywhere.. That and it is a bit like stalking without sitting in a tree.  As I am not up to stalking, or extended tree sitting, I might as well start by putting some information here.   Ok so I am married, so discretion is a must… for now.  I do have no plans of NOT being married but if you want more information on the “for now” statement, just ask : )   I will have to say that my sexual needs are NOT being meet, I think that is why a lot of us are here.  Ideally I would love to find ONE woman to play with (lists of freaky things submitted for approval will be evaluated based on the creative use of punctuation), hang out when possible, chat (on-line and off) and just kinda see where things go.  While I am by NO means opposed to one night/day stands if a onetime thing turned into more.. well that would be a bonus : )