We are looking for couples for friendship with benefits on the side. We are a professional couple, secure in our relationship and our life together, especially our sex life. We are confident, respectful, laid back, and like to have fun. We enjoy good conversation over drinks, getting to know people who are fun and non-judgmental. We enjoy traveling, camping, playing cards, motorcycling, cooking, golfing, watching sports, gardening, and most anything outdoors (we live on a hobby farm). We are both drug-, sexually-transmitted-, and COVID-free. She is sterile. We are also now actively looking for the right guy to join us in our first mfm threesome. We are very open in expressing ourselves and ask the same. We believe this lifestyle should be fun and have little tolerance for anyone who violates the boundaries we have set forth. We believe in honesty and respect and are looking for people with the same values as ours in their approach to this lifestyle. We believe in discussing boundaries and comfort levels with all involved before any physical fun begins. We are not into pain or potty. We only play as a couple, and SHE has all the say, sets all the rules, and is ultimately the one who needs to be attracted (both mentally AND physically) to BOTH members of the couple. We believe in honesty and transparency in communication when we are in contact with couples or singles. Wife handles all communication on AFF. Husband may join in the conversation but the wife does all the filtering. COUPLES: If we communicate outside AFF (i.e. Text message… which can be fun!), then all four of us will be included in the communication. We prefer to keep communication between us and couples based on gender (Husband communicates with men, Wife communicates with women) until everyone is more comfortable. We will not tolerate anyone being pushy, aggressive, or controlling. We will cease all communication. Everyone has comfort levels of differing degrees; we do not believe in pushing uncomfortable limits. Everyone plays to the lowest comfort level. Anyone uncomfortable at ANYTIME with ANYTHING simply has to speak up. Everyone needs to respect that, no questions asked. After all, No Means No. We will only share faces with couples who are interested in actually meeting within a reasonable amount of time and we will ask for face pictures from you as well. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person We are not looking for strictly sex partners, but friends who want to do as much outside the bedroom (dinner, drinks, golf, catch a game, or hang out for a weekend) which makes the benefits more fun in the bedroom (or wherever else). We prefer people who like to keep in touch, especially flirt during the times between when we can get together. A couple who like to get away for the weekend would be nice!

We are not perfect, however, and we do not expect perfection. If we sound like a couple you would like to meet, please contact us. We also ask that you be serious about meeting, not just say "Let's meet!" and then not follow through. Our free time is precious, as we our sure yours is, and we prefer to make the most of it.

WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SINGLE MEN … NO NEED TO FLIRT, HOTLIST, OR CONTACT US. YOU'RE WASTING ALL OF OUR TIME.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Foo Fighters, Aaron Lewis, Godsmack, Five Finger Death
Punch, Avenge Sevenfold

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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