Is there really a perfect match....yeh, we've found each other and have been married 20 years. I really want to tell you a bit about our situation and it may answer some of your typical questions. I have had permission to play for about 10 years and that's what I'm here for. We are not really wanting to meet for coffee and we're not big drinkers so don't ask. When we meet, it's to play. Over the years my hubby has given me so much sexual freedom and I want the same for him. Wether alone playtime with him needs to come first does not matter. The ultimate goal is for us to be together with another woman and eventually a man as well. We are somewhat picky in what we like, but really, who isn't. Looking for good looking, healthy, and fit men and women. I am a true cougar so where's all my cubs at........don't get me wrong I like men my age as well ;) For my hubby, we're open to a wide variety of age groups as long as you can be mature about the situation. Don't be shy, say hi, and we'll go from there.