I'm a Dominant (and have been for many years). That is my role (a pleaser, if you understand the true nature of D/s). I am creative and intellectual and I use those skills to write dark fantasy.I prefer athletic or slim, and dark hair; but most importantly, attitude. I prefer a strong-willed, independent woman. No (hard limit), no animals (soft limit), no bathroom games (hard limit).

My Ideal Person I require little: HWP (height-weight propotional, and yes are few extra pounds on a woman whom is comfortable with her physique is most welcome) and no "ampers" (coke, crack, meth, etc.). I only require a ribald personality.

Herbage is fine ( I use it myself when confronting a problem with my writing) as is alcohol.

minimum Age: 30. Younger MAY be trainable (all ages are teachable); but I have little patience for wavering wannabes.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
see previous

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Done 'em. My MFF threesome was a disapointment (only
my toy was bisexual), so I would say watching my toy please
another (male or female), and toying with her whilst she
did it. any further MFFs or MFMs would be toy-required.
I'd only consent or decline. <br><br>
After all, its all about the toy, isn't it?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Tell me what you wish you had the courage to do...

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
HA! Like you can find a good toy in Hollywood!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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