My name is Ashley. I am happily married but searching for a long-term fuckbuddy/boyfriend, with my husband’s knowledge and approval. I am forty years-old, 5’6,” 140lbs, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I am 100% drug and disease free and want to stay that way. I have a college degree. My husband and I have been married for twenty years and I am not in search of someone to replace him. I have had sex with three other men, during the last twenty years, though the most recent was over twelve years ago and two were only one-night stands. While I had fun with each of these men (one was the best sex I have ever had) because they were never meant to be “lasting” “relationships,” the experiences were not as enjoyable as I had fantasized. Therefore, at the time, I decided not to pursue this. After considerable contemplation about why the sex was not what I was desired, I determined it was because I preferred finding a partner with whom I could have a long-term “relationship.” Again, I am not interested in finding love or forming a deep bond. I already have that. However, it would be nice to find a man whose company I enjoy, beyond sex. Someone who makes me laugh, someone I look forward to seeing and talking to, someone, in time, whom I can trust. If I am able to develop this type of relationship, we will both, hopefully, feel completely free to explore any sexual desires either of us has. Initially, I prefer to get to know someone through email, on-line chats and texts. Also, I am not making any predictions how long it will take before I will feel comfortable to progress to our first meeting. A lot will depend upon the reliability and trustworthiness of your responses and how communicative you are in our correspondence. Hopefully, whoever reads this and thinks he is a good candidate, will want the same. I will always be very descriptive and informative and I expect the same level of effort from anybody who shows interest. I will not respond to anyone who replies with only a couple, uninformative, sentences, or less. How can I learn anything of substance, unless an effort to tell me about you is made? I will not choose a man, simply to find a fuck-buddy. If no suitable candidates respond, I will search somewhere else. I am searching for a man who is within the age range of twenty-five to thirty-five. I not only want stamina, including the ability to have sex multiple times a night, but I want a cock (yes, I wrote cock) that will get, and stay, rock hard! I prefer little to no body hair, including in the pubic area. If you do not shave completely, I prefer that everything be neatly trimmed. I prefer a man with an average, to athletic, body type and at least seven inches of hard cock. I also like a man who can be assertive, but respectful. I would love to find a guy who isn’t afraid to take control, in the “bedroom.” However, I am not interested in any type of forced/coerced/non-consensual sex. I know it may be a bit of a “balancing act” to be both assertive and respectful, but that is what I desire. If you have any questions about what I mean, ask. Ideally, I would like to be able to meet anywhere from a few times a month, to a couple of times a week, or more, if and when possible, for quickies and/or extended play. It is also important to remember, I am not your property. Though we will hopefully establish a long-term relationship, please remember, I don’t/won’t belong to you and you don’t/won’t belong to me. However, that doesn’t mean I want to have multiple sexual relationships, with many guys. What I mean is I don’t want either of us to ever become possessive of the other. I want a causal, fun and exciting long-term sexual relationship, with a trustworthy and honest guy. Also, feel free to ask me anything and tell me everything. You may come up with questions I don’t want to discuss, but I will not be offended, whatever the topic, simply because you asked. I am not interested in any man who is in a relationship or married. Of course, if his girlfriend, or wife, is aware and agrees, I would consider a “relationship.” However, I would have to be convinced. Also, I will require a few pictures with you holding a handwritten sign with your name, my name and the date, so I know the pictures you send are yours. I will provide the same. Because I am on birth control, pregnancy is not a concern. However, disease is. As I wrote above, I am disease free and want to stay that way. Therefore, though I would prefer not to use condoms, unless you are willing to get, and share, a current, and verifiable, STD test (for HIV and HPV, among others), I am not interested in sex, without condoms. In a long-term “relationship,” I would prefer that condoms not have to be used. If, after reading my profile, and viewing the pictures I have posted, you are interested and meet my preferences, physically, and are willing to be thoughtful, informative and timely, in your responses, please get back to me. I really look forward to finding a suitable long-term fb/bf. I request your discretion and promise the same.