I've been separated for just over three years now. A peaceful divorce is pending. Co-parenting somewhat peacefully, with no crazy ex drama. Since my wife and I split I've been indulging in my new-found freedom and exploring the worlds of ENM and polyamory. I'm not interested in anything serious, or complicated. I'm looking for casual friendships with a sexual core and a focus on intimacy. I like to think of it as Netflix and Chill for the over 30 crowd. FWB with an emphasis on the friends part. A certain level of comfort and connection with someone with an exciting physical component. A non-exclusive, mutually enjoyable situation built on respect, trust and, perhaps most importantly, fun. Between parenting and other responsibilities my time can be quite limited. My most stable availability is Sundays during the day, but I'm always open to discussing options if we click. I have my own place and can host provided I'm not on daddy duty. Policy around here at all times is to maximize on cuddles and other skin-to-skin contact and minimize on clothes but only within the comfort zones of all involved. I like to think of it as a place people can come and take a break, have some fun and recharge before going back out to their day to day. If any of this sounds interesting feel free to reach out! Can't wait to hear from you! Oh, and gentlemen, I'm sorry. I appreciate the attention and the offers but I'm quite heterosexual. Best of luck, but I'm not going to be able to give you what you're searching for.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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