Laid back couple. Friendly and easy to get along with everyone. We are not models but the dogs do not howl at us either. We have been swinging for about seven years but have only been with four different guys. We are looking for a Caucasian guy ( sorry just our preference ) 6-8 inches with average thickness to very thick. While we give a size we are looking for in fact size is not the main thing we are looking for in a guy: personality is most important. We drink some but not an everyday thing. We do not smoke but do not mind if you smoke as long as you do not smell like old smoke. We would like to find someone that would like to be a regular and become a long term thing. Would like to be friends and hang out some as well as sex. We would expect a gentleman friend in public and a gentleman ... sex partner in private. We would hope to find someone within 60 miles or so of us. We are both college educated and only require of you that you are intelligent and can carry on a meaningful conversation. As said before we want a friend, probably first and foremost. If you think you can fill the spot in all ways then please send us a message. We will answer all messages even if to say no thanks.