I have always known that my tastes aren't vanilla. It's been my little secret from myself for a long time. I would stick my little toe into the kink pond and giggle and enjoy it only to run away screaming soon after. But after a few dips and splashes in the pool, I am ready to go for a swim. Intuitively I feel that what I have tried and liked is only the tip of the iceberg. There is A LOT more inside myself that something in me is terrified of letting loose. I'm a down to earth, kind hearted per, and I'm normally the per everyone turns to, to vent their peral problems, but I rarely share mine. I don't have any room to judge anyone for anything. I tend to embrace people's weird quirks which a lot of black sheep find comforting :) I used to have major self-esteem issues and mind you, at times, I still do, but I have learned to embrace everything that I am, and love myself for the per I am today :) Everybody is beautiful and so is everyone's body. There's no need to be ashamed :) I love to have fun and am up to try or do pretty much anything, anytime. Age means nothing to me as long as we can respect each other and each others boundaries, I'm happy and so are you. Love women of all ages and sizes, the older ones seem to me to be some of the most fun and intriguing, from my experience. Love sexy ladies in glasses mmmmm lol is that weird? I don't think so! I Love all sorts of kink and in all honesty I'm up to try just about anything as I said, always lookin for something new! If there's anything you wana talk about or ask me about myself or anything else feel free to message me anytime! 100% Bondage Giver 100% Exhibitionist 100% Master/Mistress 100% Slave 100% Submissive 100% Switch 100% Voyeur 91% Non-monogamist 88% Bondage Receiver 88% Daddy/Mommy 88% Girl/Boy 86% Brat 83% Primal (Predator) 81% Pervert 80% Primal (Prey) 79% Degradation Giver 79% Sadist 75% Dominant 75% Experimentalist 71% Brat Tamer 66% Masochist 63% All-Rounder 63% Degradation Receiver 13% Vanilla Took the test again just for fun, so here's the results! 100% Experimentalist 100% Switch 100% Voyeur 100% Exhibitionist 97% Rope bunny 94% Non-monogamist 91% Rigger 90% Submissive 83% Owner 80% Slave 80% Dominant 79% Master/Mistress 78% Sadist 74% Brat tamer 74% Pet 73% Masochist 68% Daddy/Mommy 59% Girl/Boy 56% Brat 52% Ageplayer 52% Primal (Prey) 46% Primal (Hunter) 41% Degrader 33% Degradee 20% Vanilla I am interested in: Collaring, caging, pussy and anal play, public exhibition and play, humiliation, punishment, whipping, ass play, blindfolds, bondage, collars, corsets, breast play, gags, leashes, vibrators, spanking, whips, sluts, group play, and much more. ## ** I've been asked these questions a few times so I will put it up for all to read. ** Favorite thing about the lifestyle? That would be all of the interesting people I get to meet and chat with. What am I looking for in others? Very hard question to answer. On one side I want them to be a slut. I want them to love sex anytime, anywhere, one on one or multiples, willing to find extras for us, and love it. On another side I want them to be just mine. I want them to worship me, idolize me, and be willing to do anything I say or want. On another side I want them to be independent, fiesty, have a little fight in them, and be able to Dom(me) myself and/or others. But no matter how they are, they have to be outgoing most of the time, enjoy going out, even if its just a walk or sitting outside for something different, be a friend, lover, companion, have common intrests, and be able to have good conversations with. I don't know why Doms think they need to break a sub to make them theirs. If they know how to seduce their mind, they will do anything that is asked of them. I for one don't want a sub or slave that subs to everyone. I want them to sub to me, and keep their perality the way it was. Perality is one of the traits that attracts me. I want my sub to be able to stand up for themself to others, but still walk up to me, drop to their knees, look up at me, and ask what may I do for you Sir? That's what I want. ## The Beiter Sexuality Preference Indicator Results Partner orientationSubmissive: You indicated that you are most comfortable with being the submissive partner, which typically means you are waiting for your partner to initiate sexual activity with you to confirm their desire for you. Arousal methodTouch: You indicated that you are usually aroused through being touched by your partner. PleasureEmotional: You indicated that you more often experience your sexual pleasure through your emotional feelings. Sexual encountersAdventuresome: You indicated that you feel most comfortable in your sexual encounters where there are experiences of variety and creativity. Sensitive, sensual and kind. Enjoys the present moment and prefers not to rush pleasure, achieving orgasm within their own time frame. Loyal and committed to their sexual partner. Not likely to introduce new ideas but is receptive to them and adopts a willingness to try anything at least once.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My parents' front lawn, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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