A nice guy who is easy to be around. No pushiness or attitude here, just intelligent, friendly conversation from someone that can hold a conversation longer than 5 seconds. I have had a few couple experiences. Light male-male experiences. With women, I do enjoy light bondage and BDSM.

My Ideal Person It is my desire to find playmates. I am looking for something regular. A person or couple to meet up with on a regular basis. I already have a relationship with the most awesome person in the world who has told me it is ok to seek this out. I am in no means in any hurry to rush out and meet up with you today/tonight.

This doesn't mean I am here to string people along or be a flake either. I have been with couples before. If you think I am lying about my significant other's approval, you could speak before anything happens to ease your mind.

I am seeking someone, or a couple with a male who is more versatile than "just a bottom". Don't get me wrong, if you are only a top, that is great too. I am concerned that some people who say they are but really only want to bottom. That is not me. I hope it is not you either. I am versatile because I am as about the needs of others, as I am at fulfilling my own. Eager to please as I am to be pleased. I have topped, and will for you if you need me to and only if you will.

I guess what I am saying that if you only want to bottom then we are not really compatible. If you are a top or true versatile, then I am ok with that.

Having self control and respecting boundaries is no problem for me. I am very open minded to basically every type of pleasure and penetration that can occur. I wouldn't try to get anyone to touch or do anything they wouldn't want to do.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To meet a guy who is a hetero as I am that I could be pals with,
who I could also have awesome discrete raunchy male-male
sex with and we could become like best friends.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Similar needs

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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