I'm semi-retired. Widower of 2+ years thanks to cancer. I've been in the swing lifestyle since 2017 with my late wife, but it's really hard to navigate as a single male. I would like to continue with the friendships I've made in the LS, and hosted events are great. However, it is not a requirement of any LADY I meet. THEIR COMFORT AND NEEDS ARE FIRST AND FOREMOST. As my username suggests, I feel I'm rocking a decent Dad Bod, not heavy or skinny, but that's for the LADY to ultimately decide. I'm fixed and have been shooting blanks for many years. I have an easy-going personality and, in a relationship, or sexual situation, I'm considered a "giver". I love to touch and massage the female body, listen for the right vocal or physical reaction that tells me I've found the quirky hot spots. I've never had a complaint on a massage, even an innocent one. If you don't know what a "Yoni" massage is, Google it.

My Ideal Person My ideal person: Someone to go out with and enjoy life. If nothing else, a Netflix and Chill cuddle buddy. I can adapt to most situations as long as it doesn't have drama. If all they desire is a foot massage and ice cream that's fine with me or we can take a trip to the wild side as well.
My ultimate fantasy LOL : She would be a magical unicorn or a down to earth fun Lifestyle wing girl, events and parties. Travel partner, especially adult and clothing optional resorts and camps. NSA sex and dating. FWB. Anything else will just grow with the relationship if that's where it goes. I'd prefer an open relationship, but I'm open minded.