Just updated this and it's long...so if reading to learn isn't your thing...please please please hit the back button and click on another profile! If you your profile pic is a dick pic, if you are under the age of 45 or just looking to get laid (honey I am 51, I have heard it and seen it all, and yes, I can tell when it's your dick that messaged me!), just keep moving!!!! Also, if you are married and he/she doesn't know...keep moving. I am not your therapist! As far as sensual, sexual things I enjoy...I love touch! An amazing massage can go a long way. I love to kiss (and hell yes I'm good at it). Eye contact is the most amazing turn on. A long hug can completely change your mood. I love my breasts and nipples played with for hours (yes, I can orgasm from this, but you need to be good, lol). I like a woman with nice big breasts as well. Oh my, that sounds fun! I love a man who pays attention to a woman's clues....and isn't afraid to ask if he is unclear. Would love to tease a man with his woman. But oh, the possibilities are unless. If you claim you "don't want drama"...move on...cuz 99% your are the cause and keeper of it. The amount of men that message with only dick pics and are annoyingly persistent. OMG. Go the hell away. I am not attracted to your horrible photo of your dick with toilet paper in the background! These men wonder why they can't get a REAL woman to respond, yet they can't take 2 minutes to read a profile or feel their dick is the exception....guess what...it's not Joined AFF as apposed to other dating sites because I have a strong sexual appetite. Quite insatiable ...love intimacy both physical and mental. I like things a bit outside the norm, not extreme or hardcore, but I like exploring. So this seemed like the logical conclusion. But on that note...if you talk a big game...better back it up. Every man says he loves satisfying a woman (look at every male profile..they all say it.......but do you really? Or do you just like oral regardless of what she likes? Pay attention to her clues my friend....if you ignore...well....no matter how strong your tongue game is....if it's not what she wants and likes, it's useless!!! Anyway.. The question I get a lot is "what are you looking for?' I thought I knew. But honestly, after 51 years of life, convinced it doesn't exist. However, life is way to short to be unhappy. So what do I want...I want it all...HA! The perfect scenario....to find a connection and yes, love, with a man I can call my best friend. Someone I can share every deep dark secret, every fantasy and every day life with. That connection...omg...and to then explore each other fantasies together would be a dream come true. But unconditional love is a thing of the past. Everyone is looking out for #1. They want your forgiveness, yet not willing to give it. Maybe I am an old soul and hopeless romantic. But that is me. So I am looking for connection. Looking for honesty. Looking for person/people who genuinely give a shit about another human being! Sensuality goes WAY beyond anything you do while naked! I love touch and I love the little things! This doesn't mean you need to be my soul mate. We can have fun together. But be honest about it. If I only wanted to get laid, I'd use my toys. So gentlemen and yes, even ladies, keep it classy. Stimulate ALL of my senses! Maybe I am not the norm. But I am who I am! I get tons and tons of messages. So if I don't respond. Take the hint. No need to waste my time or yours, whether no attraction...or you failed to read my profile. Again, if all your photos are only of your private parts...keep moving...I am NOT for you!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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