The chat option is perpetually on by default for me, but I am almost never using it. I am looking to date casually. I enjoy singles, couples and Hot Wives. I would love to get our smiles together and see if we click! I might even curl your toes if you let me. I play safe with partners and prefer light emotional connections where conversation, laughter and sex are all wrapped up in the mix. I am non-monogamous at this time and am not looking for a LTR. However, I prefer my connections to be repeatable and occur with some regularity. One-night stands are not out fo the question, but sex is almost always better with a connection, simple though it might be.