Looking for.. well, what this site is about. In-person mutual fun that may or may not repeat or become something more. Pleasing my lady is important to me. Multi is a good thing, it works best. I have a technical sort of job that I like, which is a good thing because retirement is elusive. Not terribly chatty, but can carry a good conversation. My preference is for a friendship developing a personal side to a still casual relationship. Empathy adds so much. Live alone.

My Ideal Person A woman, appropriate age, and yet age is not that important. Intelligent, sensual. Body type not very important. Someone who enjoys my company in all dimensions though I realize ya hafta try it to know that. Likes a variety of things but nothing painful or degrading. Maybe add more later if somebody asks!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Turk Murphy, CCR, Maria Schneider, On and on and on

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies"

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, communication

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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