Would like to have a friend to play and local

My Ideal Person Open minded honest fun able to meet (if you can host a big plus) if youre slightly submissive and respectful I think well get along well. Im gentle caring and love someone who has a great imagination . Must be able to meet for real and local to 914 area. I'd like a friend who is sincere and honest, who is available and can meet. Local to Northern Westchester or Connecticut Maybe a hiking or fishing buddy, bike rides but also I want somewhat discreet who likes playing safe exploring fantasies. I'm bi and more dominant than sub. Long slow play , some porn, curious open minded to all good things. It's more of a mental connection for me, trust , respect and intimacy. To be honest and caring