[COLOR purple][/COLOR][SIZE 2][/SIZE]I am 43, Red headed freak at heart. But have purple hair at the moment. My husband of 9 years committed suicide on October 4, 2016 I am not looking for a relationship. I dont know what i'm looking for. If I liked you and ALL that you are. Than just know that down the line "I'M NOT GOING TO TRY AND CHANGE YOU " So please don't try and change me. Yes things will change and a lot, if not all of it we might not expect or plan on...that's where compromises and things can be changed. Sometimes what starts is not how or what we thought would be the outcome...Trust your heart but please don't break mine and I won't break yours.

My Ideal Person Someone that can make me laugh, feel special and no drama.

I have my own stuff I have to deal with DON'T NEED HIS DRAMA AS WELL AS HE DOESN'T NEED TO HEAR OR DEAL WITH MINE.

Someone who when its JUST HIM AND I that the focus is 99.8% on us and not everyone else.

I know that we all have our own lives to deal with on a day to day basis but to remember that We decided we wanted to hangout together by Choice not Obligation...Lets enjoy the time we have to spend together.

MY IDEAL FIRST DATE:
To go out for lunch or dinner (Mexican), than after that go to the beach (bring 2 blankets), and than to get warm together go to the hot tubs.

I would have to say this isn't for the first date but it's a date that I have been waiting for to happen. Maybe it will happen sooner than later...