1.) We have 40 years of experience together in the lifestyle. We have had some great experiences and some completely awful ones but yet we are still here. We have replaced all of our vanilla friends with fellow swingers and we have a blast together! 2.) We are respectful, discreet and practice daily hygiene; including shaving the areas below the belt. We are cootie free and practice safe sex but no dental dams. We ask that our play friends be the same but can be trimmed instead of shaved. 3.) We have two free weekends a month and try to use that time for adult fun. We have no issues with traveling a reasonable distance or hosting. We also have the opportunity to play during the week with people who are close. 4.) We are both social drinkers but don’t need to get drunk to have fun. He does not smoke and she vapes on occasion. 5.) Physically, we aren’t the best you’ve ever seen but we definitely won’t be the worse. We do make a conscious effort to stay in shape and eat healthily. We both need to lose some weight but we do live in a state that ranks 15th in obesity, lol.

My Ideal Person Our play friends should be:

1.) Real and as advertised.
Your profile should contain up-to-date pics. You should be a paid member. You should have at least one cert. We understand new couples may not have one and you have to start somewhere.

2). Educated
If your profile is written in text talk or believe they are a possessive pronoun, pass us by. We have several degrees and want to be able to talk about a variety of topics.

3.) Mature
If we meet and decide not to go any further, chalk it up as dinner with like-minded people. If it goes further, understand we aren’t exclusive to anyone.

4.) Discreet
Respect the fact we live where people like us are judged and participation in the lifestyle can be harmful to our lives in many ways. If you have nothing to lose, we probably won’t meet.

5.) Fun and adventurous
Be able to laugh and just let go. Be open-minded to doing a variety of activities.

6.) Clean and cootie free
This should be common sense but we need to make sure that nasty people stay away. If you are friends with Dirty Mike and the Boys go find a soup kitchen elsewhere.

7.) Confident and DTF
If you claim to be able to rock our world, be able to perform. We have been known to play on a first meet so be DTF if all goes well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Too many to include in this section!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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