First and foremost, I am a very classy middle-aged woman, well-educated, articulate, and confident of my self-worth. I am looking for an ongoing relationship with someone who can express themselves, relate to me, and wants an ongoing friendship with benefits. My gender reassignment surgery (GRS) was on October 4th 2005. My labiaplasty was on January 12th 2006. This does not mean my transition is complete it will be an ongoing process throughout my life. However, all the major surgery is out of the way. I don't go to bed with anyone just for sex. I shouldn't have used the word "just"; sex is never just! I have no interest in sex with someone I don't know or someone I don't like, even if they are God's gift. It is necessary for me to know and like my partner. Otherwise, there will be no connection and I might as well masturbate. If you are not willing to exchange a few e-mails, get to know each other, and meet for dinner with no expectation other than getting to know each other, and enjoying ourselves, we are not compatible. I am capable of orgasms from a passionate kiss, my new and growing breasts provide sensations that I never even imagined possible. (I don't believe they can be described to a man and women already know what I'm talking about.) I often orgasm while orally pleasing my partner,and receiving anal sex is fantastic, usually leading to multiple orgasms. My orgasms are deep within me and often very intense making them quite obvious to anyone with me. I love long periods of mutual kissing, touching, cuddling, snuggling, and oral stimulation. A compatible partner can pretty much have me under their control and willing to do most anything when sexually excited. Or, I can really enjoy doing the same for you. The bottom line is that I am a very sophisticated classy lady that is also extremely erotic, passionate, and sexual. If this interests you, please contact me. If you decide to write, either have a complete profile or write at least as much about yourself as you find about me in this profile. I will not answer one-liners nor will I answer inarticulate, vulgar e-mails. My interest is in something much more than a roll in the hay. If you are married or attached, you must be able to be open with your partner about a relationship with me. If you want discretion so that your partner is unaware of your activities, please find someone else. After having been the other woman in the past, I have learned that it is an impossible situation and I can not live with it. It is worth making the effort to get to know me. Somewhere out there, there is someone for me. I don't expect marriage or a commitment. On the other hand, I'm looking for an ongoing relationship that is mutually satisfying both in and out of the bedroom. I try to answer all APPROPRIATE e-mails, even if I'm declining to make further contact.[SIZE 3][/SIZE][COLOR deeppink][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Intelligent, articulate, friendly, able to talk openly about anything. I have many good friends with whom I don't have sex; I have a few, very few, good friends with benefits. If sex is your only goal, please look for someone else. The very best sex is with people we come to know, like, love, and respect. It's worth the effort.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Randy Travis, Shania Twain, Meatloaf, Bob Dylan, Joan Baez...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Participating in Erotic Photography, Lots of cuddling, kissing, touching, tasting..., I truly enjoy anal sex.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Personality is number one

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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