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Reach for me here
Posted:Aug 3, 2019 8:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2021 8:31 pm
This is where you can a message and it won't be seen by others. If you're looking for writing, check erotic stories by rm_wordswolf and those are mine. love hear from people, so comment away!

I'd appreciate it if comments were meaningful. Stop with the single words, though if you can imbue depth, meaning, and wit in a single word, have at it~!
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It is what it is... the giant cocked mystery
Posted:Sep 17, 2021 10:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2021 8:12 am
This is a... reality ?

I've been thinking for years how wonderful would be have a site like this where people can communicate and find lovers and fellow travelers in whatever kink or interest one has, free from the tyranny of morality that prevents so many other sites from going this route.... then I realized that this is not a site for the good of the participants, but for the good of the company/brand/empire.

This empire includes all those friend finding variations, and practices that make them seem be more than they all are. Like profiles that still exist, but have not had any activity, including a login - since 20... often earlier. Dead profiles. This makes seem like are thousands of options for anyone, but in reality are few, or none.

I imagine that if I lived in some town in the midwest, that seeing 400 profiles near me would be awe-inspiring. Of course, here, 1 of those 400 profiles was created in the last year and one may have an active member, in my town of 3,000. We all know that is too, Mr. Jenkins the druggist lives above his store. We can see the glowing screen late at night, and hear the panting.

I digress. The point here is that placing the site in perspective, I realize that my options are very very very very . I can hope that one more special person will come along and appreciate my stories, my well thought out and thorough... and sincere profile. I hope that one person of the few and are local will appreciate that I am a real person among flakes. I'm busy, and have a full time job, and a house. I live in a large metropolitan area, but find that filtering through the one stop visitors and the regulars, that are too few people to satisfy any but prurient interests.

I write stories from my experiences, some from fantasies, and mostly from what I wish were true (feminist, realistic, critical-thinking...) I'm always looking for intelligent, sensual/sexual, open and interesting discourse. I get , because we're so fucking busy cruising the possibilities that we just can't even remember the maxim, 'don't forget stop and smell the roses'.

I've met one rose here, met one other casual person here, and conversed occasionally with some regular 'friends' here, but have never found anyone able to just stop and communicate. It seems like a practical impossibility to do so for all the gunk filling this space.

I read a blog comment recently where a sincere member said he was lobbying to get Eh Ef Ef to remove dead profiles. They never will, because they don't care at all about us, just about the we give them, and the pretense of being a place meet people. I have a far better chance of meeting someone on a bus route than here. I'm not being bitter, I'm being realistic. are far more presently available people of interest in any bus in a city than are at any one time on this site. I might as well pass out interest cards on the bus and see what takes. And I can have fantasies based on the real people I see, rather than the imagined or portrayed people I don't (here).

So the reality can be brought right into your own sphere by searching fro members nearby and showing profiles without pictures. You'll see thousands of profiles created in the middle 2000s that have never subsequently been logged into. How do I know? I've done some research. I searched for most recent login and near me and went to the end of the line. The of profiles grows huge when you go back 15 years. How I know is because some people have joined in, say - 20, and they are most recently logged in behind a member joined in 2013... the 2013 member can't have logged in before joining, so that shows the 20 member as never having logged in again (after their initial spurt of interest). Not sure what Eh Ef Ef gains by keeping dead profiles except the ability claim them as 'members' and bulk their numbers. We all know they do that. What means is that we spend a lot of time sorting through dead and never-intended-for-use profiles... or fake profiles.

Hope this perspective helps someone!
has helped me! I still enjoy occasional chat with live people, though fewer are spending any time engaging in conversation... a sign of the times, I guess.

Read my stories!
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Getting noticed... deep deep throat writing skills
Posted:Sep 3, 2021 9:05 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2021 10:39 am
One of the things for us writers is being appreciated for our writing. Unfortunately, eh eff eff is not the place for that. In most cases, few people comment, and a few more check the writing, and we get nearly no feedback. I've had more than 1800 views in the last week of a story I wrote - and... crickets. It's clear the picture seduces people, but I wonder about the story. Sadly, without the picture, people just skim on by. And the writing is well done... not that adjectiveless run-on sentence writing some people put out there that uses porn tropes to make the salivate. Check it and comment! even open to criticism... (constructive).

://AgoraCosmopolitan Dating./stories/erotic/Cousins-step-mom-best-friends-girlfriend-3835524
Stories, comments, huh...
Posted:Aug 27, 2021 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2021 3:52 pm


I wish women were as invested as the men... of course, the men aren't all that interested either...

I need more incentive, maybe even more experiences, to continue writing!
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Moving stories...
Posted:Aug 25, 2021 7:27 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2021 3:53 pm

I had a profile previously that got 'removed' before I set up this one. I've been here on and off for some time.

Started moving my writing from that profile to this... see other erotic stories by looking me up!


Comments always welcome... less is more
Am I really back?
Posted:Jun 25, 2021 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2021 10:40 am
Just not sure - the numbers of truly special and interesting individuals are clearly decreasing. Prove me wrong?

Maybe more to come...
Babette and Albie
Posted:Mar 12, 2020 8:43 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2021 6:38 pm
I've written a number of stories... this is a favorite of mine, perhaps only because the main character is named Babette...

IM here... ugh
Posted:Mar 8, 2020 8:43 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2022 8:2 am
I'd love to hear about others' experiences with i m here. I find that people who appear to be online don't answer questions, then are gone, then appear again, then are gone... and sometimes they disappear in the middle of a conversation... poof. There is no reason to, and they reach out later often, but it seems there is no explanation for these disappearances!

What's your experience or knowledge of IM.

Today I had a nice long convo with a woman... about 20 minutes, then she stopped responding, but showed as online on im for about 10 more minutes. I'm pretty sure she was offline... there was no reason for her to disappear, a pleasant conversation between two polite adults... but poof.

THoughts welcome!
She couldn't get enough... it's been said
Posted:Feb 27, 2020 6:56 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2020 1:37 pm
"Do you always... ohh yeah... stay hard after cumming?" she asked me.
"Sometimes, when I'm not too tired, or rushed"
"Well, it's amazing..." she said as I continued to push deep inside her, to knead her shoulders, pulling her tight to me, deep, then out to the very tip, and back.
"Mmmmmmm.... " she repeated over and over, her face flushed red, her chest blushing, until she came again, fourth, fifth time, I didn't remember.

After some time, we collapsed into each other, and spooned a while, then rose to get on with our day.

It's simple, I thought - pleasing a woman, reading her pleasure, her vocalizations, her lips, and spending the time to do it right, to do it with focus and fun, sweat and passion.

blood courses thinking of her, her in lap rubbing hard against me, face to her wet, wonderful lips, her knot of labia hiding her delicate button inviting me, her slowing me, teaching me to take time, to ignore the misinformation, and bring her to pleasure.

I vowed to myself that the next time I'd bring her the joy of squirting, which I've done for others before. It's that huge release, the wet flow that feels like a waterfall, others have told me, a great exhale.

(c) 2020
Informal pole - women experience ACTUAL earth-shattering orgasms
Posted:Jan 1, 2020 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2020 6:34 pm
The title is a lie - sure, I've had many girlfriends experience powerful orgasms, but from m' research on the topic, it turns o ut that at least 10% of those I thought orgasmed, did not.

OK - women orgasm when they are in control of their own orgasm. Women sometimes orgasm complements of the ministrations of men, often oral, digital, or toy inspired, (or a combination), but MANY women do not orgasm, even when they pretend to! In particular, vaginal intercourse is a difficult way for a woman to orgasm for many reasons that include all the nuances of the state of the cock doing the work. Light pressure building up t o harder and harder pressure works pretty well. But for men, they often start very hard, the soften during intercourse. Women therefore sometimes pretend, in honor of the dude's great effort, t o have orgasmed. In interviewing women, many have said they are not doing it o ut of spite and that they do enjoy the , even without the orgasm, but they do admit that had they orgasmed due t o their partner's efforts, that it would be worlds different, profound....
I'm fortunate t0 have experienced women's orgasms, head clamped, her voice changing tones I'd never heard since or before, her chest flushed rose, and m y tongue feeling the contractions in her cunt, finding the juice flowing, and knowing, just knowing that it has happened again. I'm proud of what I've experienced, because - honestly, sometimes it does take true work and dedication.


What's your experience?
HOT couple sex
Posted:Jan 1, 2020 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2021 10:41 am
Turns out that more than half the time couple's profiles are occupied by the male half, often admitting in the first sentence that 'Just the male half playing now' - do you ever wonder why?

I don't even acknowledge couple's profiles now (except on rare occasions) and usually even when I do reach out to a couple, it's the man present, not the wife. In some cases the man says the woman will be on later in the day. I'm skeptical.

Any 'light' you can shed on this is welcome.

New year, new decade, and fucked if I thought of it too late
Posted:Jan 1, 2020 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 7:51 pm
As I was debating my evening plans on NYE, I realized that what would have TRULY made the evening special is have found a partner in crime - agree meet and work each other into an orgasmic state to culminate precisely at midnight!!

DAMN DAMN DAMN - Missed opportunity!! I know that, like me, there are many VERY passionate people, not just sex-fiends, but truly passionate, romantic people who were looking for something last night. Hell, that's why so many single people are online today - because they were left empty, bored, bereft - on the turn of the new year and new decade.

I'm ready to engage my mojo, to please a woman, to help her arrive at a smile, to perhaps inspire a daydream while at work, of the time we spent together when I helped her to regain her belief that people really do exist who care, who are determined to give pleasure, to please.

Happy NEW year and NEW DECADE to you all. May we find both pleasure and some kind of love in this new year.

All of that said, If anyone would like to inaugurate the New Year with a much needed orgasm - with or without you, I will be doing so myself, but of course, all the better with inspiration from a spirited partner. Communication is key - if you don't , you can't win.

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This could be you...
Posted:Dec 29, 2019 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2021 6:18 pm
I love the taste of a woman. LOTS of women here say they LOVE to be tasted. We were made for each other.

This could be you!

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