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It Is The Little Things That Matter Most  

sexyldy1000 65F  
10295 posts
2/22/2021 11:33 am
It Is The Little Things That Matter Most





Here are some of the little things that I think matter most:
* Saying Thank You.

* Apologizing when you know you are wrong.

* Showing up on time.

* Letting the person who seems rushed, cut in front of you.

* Listening without interrupting.

* Learning and using people's names.

* Treating everyone with politeness, even those who are rude t.o you; not
because they are nice, but because you are.

* Tipping generously.

* Knowing your limit and staying within it.

* Giving freely. Go through your things and give freely t.o those in need.

* Being empathetic but don't presume you know..

* Giving someone a sincere compliment.

* Holding doors open for others.

* Smiling at others for no apparent reason.

* Sharing your knowledge / expertise.

* Avoiding gossip. Do not initiate or add to it.

* Reaching out t.o a person who has made a difference in your life.

* Being open t.o other people and their points of view.

* Being kind t.o yourself. Make peace with your past mistakes.

* Being a mentor.

* Volunteering.

* Following your dreams and encouraging others t.o follow theirs




sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/22/2021 11:46 am

It doesn't cost anything other than the effort to do so. Sometimes it is the smallest things that take up the most room in your heart and of those around you.
Other than family, what things matter most to you?


Sircumsalot0021 40M

2/22/2021 12:28 pm

True that


mnbucketlst 57M
2 posts
2/22/2021 12:35 pm

exactly!!!


salazarhermano 32M

2/22/2021 1:05 pm

is very good your post you are so beautiful womam


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
2/22/2021 2:58 pm

This is a great list of things that matter and things we should do on a daily basis. I know I do most of these when I am out and about. I hope your Monday has been a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
2/22/2021 3:40 pm

Ahhh... an 'Angel's List'.

As a card-carrying nihilist, and with the current 'bug' curfews in place HERE - my concerns are less than altruistic. I'm thinking about whether or not I can make it to the pharmacy and back - before THAT hour strikes the red-zone.

I guess, if I drive fast enough. πŸ€” ❗ ❗ 😎


redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
2/22/2021 4:16 pm

Hmmm, sometimes life can be confusing. I've been told that we should not "sweat the little things".

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
2/22/2021 5:13 pm

A wonderful list....reminds me of the days of ole. Yet, kindness and manners never go out of style. Thanks for this reminder~~


resant78 43M  
3326 posts
2/22/2021 6:39 pm

I would like to believe with certainty that I do most of the items on the list throughout the week.


Jules1590 54F  
8151 posts
2/22/2021 8:06 pm

Well done. Love this list. I endeavor to do many of these and then some. At the end of the day its about letting people know they are seen, heard and respected.


merlot5555 65M/55F  
1472 posts
2/23/2021 2:11 pm

...who needs a book... just pay attention to these guidelines and good things happen... touche.....


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:24 pm

Yes and I think others agree.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:25 pm

Yes, indeed.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:26 pm

    Quoting  :

Your words sound like they come from experience. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:26 pm

    Quoting salazarhermano:
    is very good your post you are so beautiful womam
Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for the compliment.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:28 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is a great list of things that matter and things we should do on a daily basis. I know I do most of these when I am out and about. I hope your Monday has been a great start to your week..
I am sure you do. Others likely do too without any fanfare.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:30 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... an 'Angel's List'.

    As a card-carrying nihilist, and with the current 'bug' curfews in place HERE - my concerns are less than altruistic. I'm thinking about whether or not I can make it to the pharmacy and back - before THAT hour strikes the red-zone.

    I guess, if I drive fast enough. πŸ€” ❗ ❗ 😎
No, I don't think it's an 'Angel's List'. It's human decency and manners. No doubt, the lockdown has you and others watching the clock more than before.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:35 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Hmmm, sometimes life can be confusing. I've been told that we should not "sweat the little things".
Yes, it certainly can be confusing. Actually, the correct quote is "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" and there's a book of the same name


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:37 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    A wonderful list....reminds me of the days of ole. Yet, kindness and manners never go out of style. Thanks for this reminder~~
It reminded me of the same also. Kind of funny isn't it that kindness and manners really stand out when we see them in action. Seem to be an exception rather than the norm. Thank you for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:37 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    I would like to believe with certainty that I do most of the items on the list throughout the week.
I am sure you do too


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:43 pm

    Quoting Jules1590:
    Well done. Love this list. I endeavor to do many of these and then some. At the end of the day its about letting people know they are seen, heard and respected.


Thank you. It's by no means definitive but I think highlights many of the most important. And agree that no one wants to be invisible.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/23/2021 4:44 pm

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ...who needs a book... just pay attention to these guidelines and good things happen... touche.....
Merci. Some things that should be obvious are over-looked. Thanks for stopping by and becoming a watcher.


trixietrixster 54F  
3125 posts
2/25/2021 11:01 am

A great list of reminders - do my best to practice them as often as possible ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/25/2021 12:59 pm

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    A great list of reminders - do my best to practice them as often as possible ...
I was sure that you do . It's not a definitive list but one to consider.


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