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Every Day You Have A Choice  

sexyldy1000 65F  
10293 posts
8/31/2021 12:55 pm
Every Day You Have A Choice


Every day we have a choice about how we are going to face life and all that it throws at us.

The last couple of days, I could have curled up into a ball and cried until there were no more tears to shed.

However, that's not who I am. And I know that's not how my wants me to live. He wants me to be strong and for his sister and I to continue to look out for each other.

Here's what I am choosing to do.




sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
8/31/2021 12:59 pm

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How did you choose to live today?


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
8/31/2021 1:22 pm

I missed his call today but he kept telling his sister for us to be strong and to take care of each other.


RavenGB 61M  
1430 posts
8/31/2021 1:41 pm

As a parent, my heart bleeds for you. I have endured much, but I can imagine nothing worse than what I fear you are going through now. I wish you strength.


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1951 posts
8/31/2021 1:50 pm

all we know is that someone close to you made what you feel was a bad choice...so it is hard to know what to say to help....except...hand in there..it always gets better...in time..

woop woop


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1951 posts
8/31/2021 1:51 pm

hang in...damn auto-correct

woop woop


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
8/31/2021 1:54 pm

Yours is not a REAL question. It's born of grief and angst and ANGER and a whole bunch of other stuff.

Call me later and we'll talkβ—πŸ˜Ž

If you feel like it. I'll be watching the women win gold. πŸ˜Žβ—β—β—


stringtime666 61M  
1128 posts
8/31/2021 2:18 pm

like yesterday, being curious and being open to everything

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Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
8/31/2021 2:18 pm

Choices I made today? πŸ€”

I put two sugars in my coffee ; normally I flip one and a half.

I went to the marina, but I sat on the bench under that huge willow tree. Usually, I'll lounge on the picnic table on the right. But the shade was crazy nice near that tree.

I usually head back home, and try and get some work done ; TODAY ... I gave least fucks.

Shall, should, might, could β€” oh, for fuck's sake.
I chose to live today as if
.. it might be my very, last, day.

And THAT'S why, I re-seasoned my cast iron skillet. (* at 460 for 45 minutes *). What a challenge, but it worked out fine.

Ya never know when y'all gotta go, but at least I'm leaving them with a piece of cast iron that fucking kicks ASS! πŸ‘

What did I do today? πŸ€”
Fuck all

I lived.πŸ˜Žβ—β—β—


peterlikesplay2 66M
461 posts
8/31/2021 3:08 pm

those are great choices....and not easy to follow through on..good luck


flannel_light 59F
4586 posts
8/31/2021 4:08 pm

My heart bleeds for you. As a parent you never stop worrying and you are in my prayers.
I cleaned out my kitchen cabinets today.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


lemburns 51M/56F  
8 posts
8/31/2021 5:17 pm

Everyday you wake up the most important thing to do in the morning is choose your attitude.

Choose a good one, it will make your day a little better for you and those around you.

Choose a bad one. Well then your day is probably not going to be good and you will probably ruin someone else's day too.

So which ever one you choose own it. There are many more good reasons to choose a good one than a bad one. Even when things aren't going well or seem dark and gloomy be that ray of sunshine for not only yourself but everyone you encounter.


Blackkman983 39M

8/31/2021 5:26 pm

Absolutely great choices


lonlyforlove2 79M  
32704 posts
8/31/2021 5:42 pm

Parents have to breath diferent air, strong air, air with confidence and strengrth.. Breathe deep and relax, it will help..

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also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


scoupe42 59M  

8/31/2021 6:39 pm

All life have value to someone!


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
9/1/2021 2:05 am

There's nothing wrong in shedding tears. I wish I could!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 3:41 am

    Quoting RavenGB:
    As a parent, my heart bleeds for you. I have endured much, but I can imagine nothing worse than what I fear you are going through now. I wish you strength.
Thank you for your kind words of support. They do help and are appreciated.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 3:49 am

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    all we know is that someone close to you made what you feel was a bad choice...so it is hard to know what to say to help....except...hand in there..it always gets better...in time..
I am not comfortable revealing the specifics, not even to my closest friend The situation will never get better. I will draw on my inner strength. Thank you for your kind thoughts.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 3:59 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yours is not a REAL question. It's born of grief and angst and ANGER and a whole bunch of other stuff.

    Call me later and we'll talkβ—πŸ˜Ž

    If you feel like it. I'll be watching the women win gold. πŸ˜Žβ—β—β—
You are mistaken. I am finding ways to cope and get through each day. I was interested in how others do so. Watching the Women's World Hockey Championships and Canada winning the gold medal was a welcomed distraction.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:00 am

    Quoting stringtime666:
    like yesterday, being curious and being open to everything
That's a positive and encouraging approach . Thanks for sharing.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:04 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Choices I made today? πŸ€”

    I put two sugars in my coffee ; normally I flip one and a half.

    I went to the marina, but I sat on the bench under that huge willow tree. Usually, I'll lounge on the picnic table on the right. But the shade was crazy nice near that tree.

    I usually head back home, and try and get some work done ; TODAY ... I gave least fucks.

    Shall, should, might, could β€” oh, for fuck's sake.
    I chose to live today as if
    .. it might be my very, last, day.

    And THAT'S why, I re-seasoned my cast iron skillet. (* at 460 for 45 minutes *). What a challenge, but it worked out fine.

    Ya never know when y'all gotta go, but at least I'm leaving them with a piece of cast iron that fucking kicks ASS! πŸ‘

    What did I do today? πŸ€”
    Fuck all

    I lived.πŸ˜Žβ—β—β—
Living life is different for everyone.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:06 am

    Quoting peterlikesplay2:
    those are great choices....and not easy to follow through on..good luck
I agree they are not easy. Thank you for stopping by and offering encouragement.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:08 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    My heart bleeds for you. As a parent you never stop worrying and you are in my prayers.
    I cleaned out my kitchen cabinets today.
Thank you for your support. Life is full of choices. Some days, the choices are easier than others. Sounds like you kept yourself busy!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:11 am

    Quoting lemburns:
    Everyday you wake up the most important thing to do in the morning is choose your attitude.

    Choose a good one, it will make your day a little better for you and those around you.

    Choose a bad one. Well then your day is probably not going to be good and you will probably ruin someone else's day too.

    So which ever one you choose own it. There are many more good reasons to choose a good one than a bad one. Even when things aren't going well or seem dark and gloomy be that ray of sunshine for not only yourself but everyone you encounter.
You obviously understand what I was asking. Thank you for sharing your common-sense approach to getting through each day.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:12 am

Since they make sense to me, I thought others might agree. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:14 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Parents have to breath diferent air, strong air, air with confidence and strengrth.. Breathe deep and relax, it will help..
Focusing on other things also helps. Thank you for your words of encouragement.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 4:14 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    All life have value to someone!
Indeed it does!


ClassicRock2015 68M  
2021 posts
9/1/2021 6:33 am

Keep a positive attitude going forward...Sounds like your close family will be very helpful !...hugzzz !


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 7:57 am

    Quoting ClassicRock2015:
    Keep a positive attitude going forward...Sounds like your close family will be very helpful !...hugzzz !
I am keeping my chin up and not focusing on all the β€œwhat if’s”. I don’t feel I can discuss the specifics with anyone, so it’s my daughter and I facing it together. A hug would be very therapeutic 😊. I appreciate the virtual one! Yes


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 8:14 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    There's nothing wrong in shedding tears. I wish I could!
It’s not easy for many to allow themselves to be so vulnerable. It was very difficult to hold it together when my son broke down on the phone. I hadn’t heard him cry 😒 since he was a little boy.


Weeload2 59M
1104 posts
9/1/2021 8:29 am

Do whatever it takes to kep on, keeping on !
Take it easy for sure !

~Wee~


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Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
9/1/2021 9:11 am

Your in my thoughts and prayers my friend, stay strong, and stay happy as you know what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger..

I hope your able to enjoy your Hump Day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 1:21 pm

    Quoting Weeload2:
    Do whatever it takes to kep on, keeping on !
    Take it easy for sure !

    ~Wee~

Thank you. One step-at-a-time; One day-at-a-time.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/1/2021 1:22 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Your in my thoughts and prayers my friend, stay strong, and stay happy as you know what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger..

    I hope your able to enjoy your Hump Day..
Your kind thoughts and prayers are appreciated more than I can express. We both are strong, resilient women.


easyrider4008 65M
2563 posts
9/2/2021 5:07 am

I am glad that you have chosen to be positive, best wishes.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
9/2/2021 10:46 am

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    I am glad that you have chosen to be positive, best wishes.
Thank you. Another other choice simply wasn’t feasible 😊


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