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Be Thankful For The Bad Things In Life  

sexyldy1000 65F  
10296 posts
3/24/2021 8:06 pm
Be Thankful For The Bad Things In Life

This says it all.....



sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/24/2021 8:14 pm


We don't always understand why things happen. And when something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you. Let it destroy you. Or let it strengthen you.

What do you choose to do?


scoupe42 59M  

3/24/2021 8:37 pm

Words of wisdom.


Avonsenior 68M  
1461 posts
3/24/2021 8:42 pm

I have tried to let it strengthen me in the past but it can really take you down hard .
This virus has shown a lot of people how much they miss the interaction with others.
I am afraid that some people will have a hard time when they do get together with friends and family


fuelhopper 56M
124 posts
3/24/2021 8:54 pm

i always say in life its top bottom middle you never stay in one long it rotates


redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
3/24/2021 9:08 pm

They're learning experiences

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


agelesssexylegs 79F
1145 posts
3/24/2021 9:13 pm

Oh yes so true,often my head in a muddle these days i often do not realise a good thing until i lost it or oppotunity has passed by


resant78 43M  
3326 posts
3/24/2021 9:23 pm

wise words.

Bad times suck, however I do feel that whatever doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.


sweet0necter 48F  
2059 posts
3/24/2021 9:34 pm

the yin and yang of life.


justskin1 70M  
13175 posts
3/25/2021 6:23 am

Too many people let the bad things make them more on the lookout for other bad or potentially bad things. Bad things don't have to be looked for they slap you in the face. Good things just go by all to often without our noticing. One must train oneself to notice the good things and then you realize how many more of them there are compared to bad. Looking to notice the good things, big or especially the small makes life so much more fun and rich.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
3/25/2021 11:10 am

Yes it does say it all as the bad things is what makes us stronger. Brilliant quote my friend. I hope you enjoy a terrific Thursday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 7:50 pm

I think so too. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 7:53 pm

    Quoting Avonsenior:
    I have tried to let it strengthen me in the past but it can really take you down hard .
    This virus has shown a lot of people how much they miss the interaction with others.
    I am afraid that some people will have a hard time when they do get together with friends and family
How we handle and respond to difficult situations impacts what we do the next time we have them. Isolation during the pandemic has been very difficult for many. Your comment touches on what my next post is about. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 7:57 pm

    Quoting fuelhopper:
    i always say in life its top bottom middle you never stay in one long it rotates
Makes sense for many people. For others, they can get stuck in one layer and don't want to change. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 7:59 pm

That is certainly the approach I have taken. And I have had my fair share of them!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 8:02 pm

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Oh yes so true,often my head in a muddle these days i often do not realise a good thing until i lost it or oppotunity has passed by
You are not the only one who goes through that. I am sure clears will become clearer for you.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 8:04 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    wise words.

    Bad times suck, however I do feel that whatever doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.
I am sure that it does too. I always look at what I have I learned from tough times.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 8:07 pm

Indeed

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sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 8:14 pm

    Quoting justskin1:
    Too many people let the bad things make them more on the lookout for other bad or potentially bad things. Bad things don't have to be looked for they slap you in the face. Good things just go by all to often without our noticing. One must train oneself to notice the good things and then you realize how many more of them there are compared to bad. Looking to notice the good things, big or especially the small makes life so much more fun and rich.
People can get bogged down by the difficult or tough things they have to deal with. Your perspective offers a calmer, more peaceful and happier approach i life. Thank you for stopping by and sharing it.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/25/2021 8:21 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Yes it does say it all as the bad things is what makes us stronger. Brilliant quote my friend. I hope you enjoy a terrific Thursday..
I knew you would be able to relate to that quote. Be well and keep safe!


lyavu 49F
1538 posts
3/26/2021 2:06 am

I hate to day this covid has opened eyes of so many people. No one ever thought life could change or hygiene was important. Also learn to appreciate the things you have .


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/26/2021 6:10 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    I hate to day this covid has opened eyes of so many people. No one ever thought life could change or hygiene was important. Also learn to appreciate the things you have .
There isn’t an aspect of my life that hasn’t been impacted. I remember how our economy, especially tourism, was affected by SARS. It was more contained than Covid. Lessons were learned and then forgotten when this started. Often, people don’t appreciate what they have until it’s taken away.


p1947q 75M  
140 posts
3/26/2021 8:24 am

Whatever happens - good or bad - is an opportunity to learn and grow


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
3/26/2021 10:12 am

    Quoting p1947q:
    Whatever happens - good or bad - is an opportunity to learn and grow
Definitely agree and that has been my mantra for years


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