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My distilled reasons for sex
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My distilled reasons for sex The 237 reasons given to have sex seemed to have many repetitions and variations on the same idea. So I have distilled them down to 50 reasons, including a few new ones I added based on my experience and observations: 50 distilled Reasons to have sex: Hospitality: Eskimos lend a wife to a traveler; To gossip about: To have something to tell or write about; Curiosity: curious about new lover, new position, what feels like, new gender, non-intercourse (anal, oral), multiple partners, bigger dick. Health: relieve tension, headache, cramps, “blue balls”, burn calories, exercise, improve prostate, help fall asleep, stay warm Self emotional state: feel powerful, want attention, act out fantasy, feel older, feel younger, feel better about self, enjoy life, get over an ex lover, to lose inhibitions, end virgin status; Revenge: to get back at cheating mate, hurt an enemy, give someone a STD, make someone else jealous; Work: to get sex off brain, so can work more; Coercion: fear physical injury unless comply, pressured, verbally harassed, felt too guilty to deny other’s request; Impaired condition: unable to control self because drunk/drugged; Sex addict: compelled to have sex for psych reasons; Love: to express love and affection to partner, become one with partner, feel intimacy, share the pleasure; Avoid other tasks: to avoid chores, change topic of conversation, stop nagging; Break relationship: end your own or break up another’s; Alter status: end virgin status, rebel against parents/teachers, closure on relationship, lower your AgoraCosmopolitan Dating purity score; Habit: expected to have sex with partner, so just do it; Power: to dominate another, possess them, a conquest, submission or feel dominated; Spiritual: to feel God, one with the universe, spiritual act, Tantric sex practices; Obligated: feel duty to do it, married; Punished: feel desire to be degraded and humiliated, or degrade other; Pleasure: for fun, experiment with new positions or partners, for excitement or adventure; Communicate: to say “sorry”, “thank you”, return a favor; Celebration: for anniversary, birthday, for holiday, for big win; Partner stealing: to trap someone, or steal another’s partner; Sex identity validation: to reaffirm or test sexual orientation; Reciprocate: to pay back for a fancy dinner, jewelry, gifts, money, to reward him for making me laugh; Aroused: Aroused by partner’s looks, personality, good kisser, dancer, intelligence, humor, caresses Challenge: A bet, competition among friends, dared, “out of league” success; Mercy fuck: to lift their spirits, not want to disappoint them, help them forget problems ( “broken man” ) , feel sorry for problems; Reproduction: want , ovulating, genetic imperative; Royalty: need male heir to pass on royal line, leave ancestral house or business to an heir; Partner pacify: keep partner happy, make partner spend time with you, partner insist; Social status: fit in with friends, to brag, initiation rite, hurt rep if said no, be popular, sex with a celebrity, notch in your belt; money: for money, job or promotion, casting couch, return a favor or be owed a favor; Married: obligation, duty; Bored: filling time, thing to do, just happened; Reaffirm life: after funeral or 9/11 trauma to feel alive; Going to war: to feel alive, leave offspring, not die a virgin; To affect partner: To make partner desire you, make partner envious, make partner feel good, relaxed, or sexy; Make-up sex: to reaffirm bond after fight or end an argument; Artistic inspiration: Sought experience for writing, painting; Retain potency: use it or lose it; To improve skills: Practice with more experienced partner to learn new skills; Acting: in porn, movies or theater; Lost control: intended to just kiss and got carried away, raging hormones, or felt too “horny” to stop; To Swing: To please partner by swinging, or to enjoy an alternative lifestyle. To allow partner to be a voyeur: to let partner see you have sex with someone else for partner’s gratification. Leader ordered: In a cult and the leader ordered the sex; Testing powers: To see how many orgasms each person could have in a set time period; Nostalgia: to recapture youthful feeling; To be able to harm someone: have sex so you can ruin partner's reputation or injure your own, or transmit an STD; Daily sex: Minister suggested to improve relationship. |
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I started mentally checking of any that I had done, then lost count! lol Great list!
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I have not gone off to war, been royal, used sex to harm someone, had sex to gossip about, have not been in a cult so no leader ordered my sex life, not been paid for sex, not been an actor in a porn film, not been an eskimo, not had sex in a swinging situation, not had sex for a bet, not been coerced into sex, not had sex with a celebrity to brag about it, and not had sex to prove I was heterosexual. I have had sex for many other reasons....
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the best reason for sex is because you and your partner enjoy sharing pleasure and love each other....
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Remustang91...I really like the way you think! Isn't it really the only reason two people should have sex? Answer...Hell yes!
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Liking someone is a good start, but you also need to have hot chemistry together to really enjoy the sex... 
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People need reasons to have sex?
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According to Billy Crystal, men just need a room, but women need a reason. I have given the females at least fifty of them, so lets get the party started...
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Of course men don't always need a room, if you are willing to risk a few mosquito bites...
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Sex is the answer, I just keep forgetting the question.
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