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jajo696 66F  
468 posts
11/26/2020 1:44 am
~~ She Took a Deep Breath


......and...

cont. in the first comment

jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/26/2020 1:56 am

......and Whispered to Her Soul

" i got this "

For anyone who struggles in general, struggles thru the less daylight hours,
struggles during the holiday seasons and now in addition struggles in the
pandemic and its ensuing isolation.

Let this be your Mantra....

Breathe deeply....slow down....and whisper to your soul, " I Got This "

Cuz you Do !

Happy Season of Holidays🦃 🌲 ❄️🌏 🥂 🍷 Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Boxing
Day et all ~~


Paulxx001 63M
17844 posts
11/26/2020 2:46 am

I got this.
A friend, a book, movie, the internet, TV... God...

Ya gotta find a companion and just trust them /it/HIM to work. Alcohol is a cheat, but it'll do... for a while.

Embrace the dark, close your eyes and be assured - you're not alone. 🌹


redduracell 49M
822 posts
11/26/2020 2:51 am

Bless you


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/26/2020 3:25 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I got this.
    A friend, a book, movie, the internet, TV... God...

    Ya gotta find a companion and just trust them /it/HIM to work. Alcohol is a cheat, but it'll do... for a while.

    Embrace the dark, close your eyes and be assured - you're not alone. 🌹
lol @ alcohol. I was just writing a person back and told him that i need the tequila courage to open the package that the daughters of my oldest n closest friend sent me this week, after her passing. I came home from work and saw the box in my door, read who it was from , and was crying before i even got in the house. That was Tuesday, she passed 11/3. I have yet to open it. So that " i got this " post resonated with me.....and i thought others could use it too. The holidays are sooooo tough for some under regular times and these are certainly unregular times.

So...i laugh at the alcohol statement.....cuz im certainly gonna cheat !! lol


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/26/2020 3:26 am

Thank you Red....there are many Blessings to be found IF we look. Bless you too ~~


author51 58F
107458 posts
11/26/2020 4:57 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    ......and Whispered to Her Soul

    " i got this "

    For anyone who struggles in general, struggles thru the less daylight hours,
    struggles during the holiday seasons and now in addition struggles in the
    pandemic and its ensuing isolation.

    Let this be your Mantra....

    Breathe deeply....slow down....and whisper to your soul, " I Got This "

    Cuz you Do !

    Happy Season of Holidays🦃 🌲 ❄️🌏 🥂 🍷 Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Boxing
    Day et all ~~
It sounds like you got this..Happy Thanksgiving to you..Stay healthy, stay safe...


lust4life59 62F  
1246 posts
11/26/2020 5:02 am

Hugs, you got it, hold on and don't lose it.


XHamburgDave 77M  
10462 posts
11/26/2020 5:19 am

Happy Thanksgiving Jajo

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azlyn456 61M  
193 posts
11/26/2020 6:22 am

Have a Happy Thanksgiving.


sexyldy1000 60F  
7361 posts
11/26/2020 11:14 am

‘I Got This’ is such a strong, motivational mantra to embrace and applicable to a myriad of circumstances. I know I have ‘talked to myself’ a few times to conquer what others may see as overwhelming situations. Happy Holidays.


lunchandconvo 50F
2802 posts
11/26/2020 11:34 am

i'm sorry you have the package you can't open.

i have VM from my late dad stored on my phone. i have the message memorized. i don't want to delete it. and i also don't want to regularly hear it. i keep my VM full so i don't have to listed to my stored messages. i will need to start listing to VM again when i go back to work for myself in a few weeks. i know this is a really expensive decision but i am probably going to get a second line so i don't deal with this VM.

if only i just drank alcohol!

i hope your thanksgiving is a best as it can be. XO!


PonyGirl1965 55F
13385 posts
11/26/2020 11:22 pm

Amen! I lean on my friends and encourage them to lean on me


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:31 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Amen! I lean on my friends and encourage them to lean on me
Pony......that is the best....good friends help out alot in these times. You are Blessed to have them. Cherish that ! Thanks for stopping by ~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:38 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    i'm sorry you have the package you can't open.

    i have VM from my late dad stored on my phone. i have the message memorized. i don't want to delete it. and i also don't want to regularly hear it. i keep my VM full so i don't have to listed to my stored messages. i will need to start listing to VM again when i go back to work for myself in a few weeks. i know this is a really expensive decision but i am probably going to get a second line so i don't deal with this VM.

    if only i just drank alcohol!

    i hope your thanksgiving is a best as it can be. XO!
Ohhhh Lunchand...i had the same thing with an old phone couldnt rem the password and didnt wanna mess with it.cuz my bro was on there. Then i got a new phone and the messages transferred over with no password. YaY !! So i have my bro and husbands VM on there and i will never erase em and can bypass them when needed. So i know exactly what ya mean. Still havent opened the box...maybe one of these days when i am stronger ( sigh ) . Thank you for your wishes, as i hope your holidays are managable and somewhat joyous as well. Thanks girl ~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:41 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    ‘I Got This’ is such a strong, motivational mantra to embrace and applicable to a myriad of circumstances. I know I have ‘talked to myself’ a few times to conquer what others may see as overwhelming situations. Happy Holidays.
SexyL....i soooo agree...talking to ourselves for support or to get us into or out of situations can be productive. I always say....whatever works. Its also a day at a time....most times for me anyway...a breath at a time. Thanks very much for your thoughts. I hope the holidays treat you with kindness~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:45 am

    Quoting azlyn456:
    Have a Happy Thanksgiving.
Thanks Az...it was a fine day. Much different that previous years, but I made it through. Moving right along now....lol . I hope your day was all you needed it to be. Thanks for stopping by ~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:46 am

Thank you so very much Dave. and Thanks for visiting my Blog. Stay safe n well ~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:48 am

    Quoting lust4life59:
    Hugs, you got it, hold on and don't lose it.
Thanks Lust....i gotta remember to hold tightly..and dont lose it, you re right!!. I hope your holiday season is all you need it to be. Thanks for stopping by ~~

Huggssss girl ...


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 12:50 am

    Quoting author51:
    It sounds like you got this..Happy Thanksgiving to you..Stay healthy, stay safe...
Thanks Joy...i hope i got this...lol. We All need a bit of mantra encouragement from time to time. I hope you got it too.....when ya need it. Thanks very much for stopping in ~~


BrailleMan 59M

11/27/2020 8:42 am

Thank you. You always have such uplifting words . I really appreciate them. Have a day as Awesome and beautiful as you are .


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/27/2020 9:18 am

    Quoting BrailleMan:
    Thank you. You always have such uplifting words . I really appreciate them. Have a day as Awesome and beautiful as you are .
Thats very sweet of you. I thank you. Some...well most....would say....im too melancholy.....but what the heck do they know..right ?? Im just real.....and dealing the cards that life gave me. Trying my best. You too...have a MaHvelous day ! Thanks for dropping in~~


missthee 54F  
4345 posts
11/27/2020 10:51 pm

Needed to read this! Thanks!


BrailleMan 59M

11/28/2020 8:04 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    Thats very sweet of you. I thank you. Some...well most....would say....im too melancholy.....but what the heck do they know..right ?? Im just real.....and dealing the cards that life gave me. Trying my best. You too...have a MaHvelous day ! Thanks for dropping in~~
I think not that you are melancholy. I think you are awesome being YOU the way YOU were meant to be. I have often considered doing a comic strip called Melancholy Man. I think people need to chill out more. maybe open Siberia for mass chilling of the people. Live life each day because that is all you can do. I think you do an awesome job. Thank you


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/28/2020 12:39 pm

    Quoting missthee:
    Needed to read this! Thanks!
Perfect !! Im glad you found it and the words resonated. You Got This , You Got This, You Got this .

I KNOW you do...

Carry on...sending you light n prayers and strength ~~


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/28/2020 12:44 pm

    Quoting BrailleMan:
    I think not that you are melancholy. I think you are awesome being YOU the way YOU were meant to be. I have often considered doing a comic strip called Melancholy Man. I think people need to chill out more. maybe open Siberia for mass chilling of the people. Live life each day because that is all you can do. I think you do an awesome job. Thank you
Smiled when i read your Melancholy Man, thinking of the Peanuts character that walked under a cloud always. Perhaps he has grown up and is now you Melancholy Man?

People do need to chill more...but some are you know that Type A....and are highly wired. Might take some powerful potions to get em to chill. lol

Thanks for your thoughts, as always ~~


BrailleMan 59M

11/29/2020 2:44 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Smiled when i read your Melancholy Man, thinking of the Peanuts character that walked under a cloud always. Perhaps he has grown up and is now you Melancholy Man?

    People do need to chill more...but some are you know that Type A....and are highly wired. Might take some powerful potions to get em to chill. lol

    Thanks for your thoughts, as always ~~
I am glad I could make you smile. I loved PigPen . I think sometimes I have trained myself to be high wired. Thanks you for your sunshine. I needed that . Love potion number 9 . hmmm That was not a chilling experience as I remember. Melancholy is chilling out as I see it . Thank you again xoxo


drinksprite62 58M
6074 posts
11/30/2020 12:32 am

You got this!


jajo696 66F  
2963 posts
11/30/2020 1:57 am

I hope so Sprite. So far, i have dealt with whatever has been thrown at me...but my stored up stamina is being depleted and it doesnt look like there is much replenishment in the future ( sigh ).

As always, thanks for finding me and commenting Huggss ~~


Jules1590 52F
7191 posts
11/30/2020 6:02 pm

This is wonderful. I particularly like that you phrase it, "I got this." You are one in the same. That is quite the epiphany for me.

When I talk to myself its "You've got this." Its an outerbody -other person cheering me on and pumping me up.

Validation does need to come from within. I should be able to do that for myself and approve of myself. No one else can do that for me.

What a wonderfully uplifting post. Thank you so much for sharing.


MelbLife 55M
82 posts
1/6/2021 3:32 am

jajo wisdom often can be given
of how festive times can cause stress driven
is best for all to take a deep and relaxing breath
and accept the joy and try and ignore the rest


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