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AFF: Good place for long term relationships??  

funwithtraveling 45M
13 posts
8/23/2020 10:51 am
AFF: Good place for long term relationships??

So I wanted throw this out there. As I get in age a little and my priorities have shifted in life, I start thinking about settling down, maybe having a family, etc. One of the things I desire is an uninhibited physical relationship with another person. I think when we think this way and we are in the dating world, we worry. We worry that we will meet someone really great, but they will not accept our sexual desires, ideas, and so forth. So it brings us here look for those types of people. Let's face it, many of us here are normal, hard-working people with fantasies, fetishes, desires that we like keep the DL or in the "bedroom". Whether it is because of , friends, workmates, we prefer the anonymity of being the average individual on the streets. We might even like the game when we say under our breathes, "only if you knew...". I guess I am curious about other's thoughts concerning using AgoraCosmopolitan Dating as a means find "the one?" Is there anyone else out there looking or thinking the same? A lot more this conversation, thoughts are welcome! Thanks for reading.
So ...
Yes to a long term
If a connection happens, great!
Yeah right. Good luck with that
AFF can't even get IM working, how can we expect two people to work?
AFF is for short term ONLY
You pose an interesting question
Why did I read this again?
I want to, but.....


zeke53028 61M  
1111 posts
8/23/2020 12:54 pm

There are just to many fake profiles on AgoraCosmopolitan Dating to find anyone reliable or real.


BiggLala 48F  
29059 posts
8/23/2020 3:46 pm

I think a man looking for "the one" here is more likely to find it than a woman looking for the same. Be prepared for the "this site is only for hookups" folks.

Personally, I don't specifically seek a long term, committed, romantic relationship here, and it's not why I joined. However, I certainly don't discount the possibility. In fact, I think this is a good place to find a long term relationship for those that want one...AND...for those who think sex is an important part of said relationship. I mean...it's better than finding someone on a vanilla site, getting into a relationship and then being right back here because you're in a "sexless marriage/relationship". I'll never understand why sexual people choose someone who isn't sexually compatible for long term partners.

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author51 57F
104407 posts
8/24/2020 12:15 am

I have met and had a wonderful 2 year relationship with one I connected with on here, where real feelings were involved.When you connect with someone here and that chemistry is through the roof, you can find "the One"..Good post...


amkamk48001 53M/50F  
269 posts
8/24/2020 3:22 am

Worked out for us


Yours_4A_knight 55M
1422 posts
8/24/2020 5:21 am

It seems difficult to the point of impossible to just get to the point of meeting to talk in person, much less have a real thing of any duration.

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undercover_bi469 56M
640 posts
8/26/2020 2:57 pm

Anything is possible, keep an open mind. Good luck.


viwagirl 47F
30 posts
8/30/2020 1:10 am

Had a 7 year relationship with someone I met on this site.
Open to all possibilities and also fully aware of what kind of site this is.


BiSussi 60F
259 posts
8/31/2020 6:08 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I think a man looking for "the one" here is more likely to find it than a woman looking for the same. Be prepared for the "this site is only for hookups" folks.

    Personally, I don't specifically seek a long term, committed, romantic relationship here, and it's not why I joined. However, I certainly don't discount the possibility. In fact, I think this is a good place to find a long term relationship for those that want one...AND...for those who think sex is an important part of said relationship. I mean...it's better than finding someone on a vanilla site, getting into a relationship and then being right back here because you're in a "sexless marriage/relationship". I'll never understand why sexual people choose someone who isn't sexually compatible for long term partners.

BiggLala is right on based on my experience when it comes to men, I also find it works well for women Even though, most men on here look for SEX, you have men who are also into love

No question, AgoraCosmopolitan Dating is the perfect place
Why would you go to a Ford dealer when you desire a Jaguar?
Same here, you could go to church every Sunday or visit your neighborhood bar every day, but you most likely to find the woman you have most in common on AgoraCosmopolitan Dating.


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Hotmomanhawaii 60F  
2 posts
9/11/2020 9:40 pm

I have noticed there are several guys that I have interacted with, that like to masturbate on cam anonymously. There have been a few that share their names and numbers with me. That's good but the idea of meeting in person is a good idea at first, but eventually I discovered that the thrill they want more than anything is going on cam. So that's not a fantasy for us to share.


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